when he proposed i said yes

TWH MAKE-UP

2012-02-07T23:57:00.001-08:00

Heyya!
TWH has a new make-up artist to doll up ur love ones! His name is Lan! His magic touch will make ur families and friends pretty! Owh Lan slalu makeup we all at tv3 if ada functions or live cross overs :))

Fee:
RM80 per head (min 5 heads)
RM70 per head (min 9 heads)

E-Mail: theweddingheaven@yahoo.com

Merisik or tunang RM200
Nikah RM250
Reception RM300

MY MISTAKE

2012-02-05T11:17:00.001-08:00

Sunday-- at the office working. Assigned for morning assignment. But at 8pm suddenly assigned for anotha task.. My phone was out batt, i do not know how to call my client to cancel the appointment at 9.30 since contact details dlm phone, i dont save anywhere else.

Lama pulak ceramah politik tu, sampai rumah at 2am! Charged my phone, switchrf on-- and there were 9missed calls and 3msgs from her. I felt so bad tho i dont even expect working late on sunday. Newsroom=ad-hoc. I am sad that i dissapoint her. To make things worse she came all the way from putrajaya to damansara.

Kenapalah malang nasib saya, kena late assigment, phone mati... Hurmmm malangnya.

I hope i can make it up to her. I apologized for that unexpected incident. I know i can't even escape from the task given by my superiors but again it's not an excuse for me to let her down. Sedoh sgt dpt tahu she came all the way frm putrajaya...Lesson learnt lain kali catat nombor client elsewhere so bila phone mati and ada urgent matters at least can call clients immediately. And if i were in her shoes, i'll definitely be equally sad and mad. I don't expect her to understand my ad-hoc job. It was a bad day for me for that incident to happen. Marah dgn kerja dan diri sendiri.

To nanie, i am truly, deeply sorry for what happened.

I am very very sorry.

HONEYMOON!!!

2012-02-02T08:38:00.000-08:00

hallu!

we tied the knot last november but tak pegi honeymoon lagi.

being me -- who has loved planning all my life, saya sudah plan semua since august last year.

DONE (KL pre-honeymoon)

1) November - Carcosa Seri Negara 3days 2nights

2) December - Pacific Regency 3days 2nights

3) January - Nomad Sucasa 2days 1night

- ALL apartment-like hotel (except carcosa)... oh we had fun exploring ;p , u should too! :)

NEXT

1) February - Indonesia

2) March - Singapore

3) April - Tokyo

*all booked! yippie!

I can't wait for our Tokyo honeymoon trip! i've been to countries in the middle east, europe, africa... but not Japan! if u have any tips, or any of u readers stay in Japan, i would appreciate ur kind help! me and husband will stay in Shibuya, Tokyo :)

love!

BULAN MALANG

2012-01-26T22:21:00.001-08:00

bulan januari 2012 tak sebaik bulan sebelumnya..

Career:
Rasa down sgt sbb saya rasa saya sudah stagnant. Langsung tak move forward. Tepu. Saya rasa saya perlu tukar kerja.

Business:
Ada 5 booking bulan ni, i dah amik cuti. 3 executed...Ada 2booking email dgn tak putus2 until hari majlis, but until date tiba takde payment. So im sorry, i dont execute without any payment. It hurts me dealing with not so serious client... Walhal i dah give way to pay 3days before majlis. Tak baik lg camtu? Tak marah tapi... Sedih :(

Financial:
Bulan 12 gaji masuk awal, bulan 1 pun gaji masuk awal. So hujung bulan sengkek... Nasib dah ada husband. If not pengsan. I prefer gaji masuk pada d usual date. Duit byk habis settlekan rumah.

I hope bulan februari dan seterusnya lebih baik.

WEDDING BLOGS SUNYI?

2012-01-23T05:20:00.001-08:00

Oh i miss sabby's ramblings, i miss ashylla's writing, i miss jacky's stories, i miss moose's comments and so i miss other wedding bloggers weekly updates. Pls write again... Exb2b tips will be great. Saya juga boleh share.

Mana la pergi all great malaysia wedding bloggers?Everyone is so quiet...

But ya, after kahwin mmg slow down sikit. Saya juga.

Wait until i serve u lumpsum update ya?

Stay tune!!! Xx

MISS X NIKAH: PHOTOGRAPHER (PHOTOS)

2012-01-18T07:38:00.000-08:00

hye all!

i think my loyal readers sure know i hired the talented Bak aka Bakri Hafiz Hisham for my wedding. he is very friendly, and baik.... so tak sampai hati nak marah tho he's late ;p ....i have not received my album yet (not his fault)... i yang tak pilih lagi gambar2 yg i suka. :) bak actually uploaded my photos a week or two after event. cepat sgt sgt!

with bak, i can be very honest. i told him i want kurus pictures. saya suka ilusi kurus ;p *wanita indenial* haha i sure pick all kurus photos and non-lemak bulging pictures to squeeze in my w-album. so i don't care.. tho the photos include lovely people in my life, i'll definitely say goodbye to 'em if myself looks like a hyppo in it. (they can view dekat my laptop for more pictures haha).... i know,i know--- i am mean. but ya. thanxbye. :)

hiring bak--- i would say, sangat easy to deal with. i'm the fussy type but i can handle all discussion with vendors via mail. i don't know, but i just trust the technology. i don't go vendors-bugging, make many appointments in order to make decisions. i just mailed 5-10 times, ask for their acc number and bank in the amount.i believe my own eyes to decide and do judgement. so ya, i hired bak sebab bak punya PR sangat superb (cepat reply email walaupun busy) ... he's so kind,sweet and talented. (puji melambung mana tau dapat free mini clip waktu honeymoon... haha)

i am so lucky. bak's friends tag along too! ichi, haziq and khalisah. (reception another team, but definitely bak as the chief la kan? .... nanti i review in another post ya?)...

anyway, i don't mind bak's friends to tag along and publish my photos because they're all soooooo talented. they get to capture gambar, i get a few photos... all of them, masing2 ada skill and trademark sendiri --- angles, shots, color.

one thing about bak and his friends, they're kinda quiet. (tapi suara bak je saya dengar, kadang2). but kata orang, diam2 ubi berisi. gambar each and every one of them sangat superb.

cuma saya sedih no one tegur my veil jatuh, and my hair dah kena peluh waktu outdoor photoshoot. i hope bak will photoshop the hair/veil area, duplicate warna veil... yahoo!

so i present u a few photos from each of them. :)) -- bak punya gambar banyak! sbb he has uploaded loadssss in his webpage.

1) BAKRI HAFIZ HISHAM - the mastermind (http://bak.my)
--- dah upload banyak gambar!---

2) ICHI - another photographer (http://www.darkroom.fotografikr.com/)

3) HAZIQ SAHARUDDIN- next photographer (http://blog.hazyq.com)

4) KHALISAH - lagi satu photographer -belum lihat hasil gambarnya. *nanti saya update*

p/s1: lihat: color tone gambar each photographer lain2.... suka!!!

p/s2: Bak ada promo RM2500 per event. cepat grab! u shall see his work at the said website and mail him to discuss further! for the other talented photographers aka bak friends go view their page and contact them too!

eh ada lagi, p/s3: saya dan suami bawa bak fly with us for our honeymoon di negara jiran! next month! yippie!

FRENCH LACE FOR SALE

2012-01-07T04:03:00.001-08:00

Hello all,
I have a panel of french lace for sale, bought it at the famous apique@mayestic, Rp2,100,000 = RM720++. Colour: white. Sangat soft and rumbai2 lace dia cantik, terletak sgt if nak rumbai2 lace at wrist and kaki baju as well as neckline. Kalau kat jakel mmg 600-over 1k per meter. Asalnya nak buat baju nikah but suddenly qudyn suggested chiffon silk sbb i'm a chubby bride, and chiffon suits me better. So now i'm letting go the beautiful lace at only RM500nett for the whole one panel. Will upload very soon.

MINI PELAMIN RM600

2012-01-01T11:01:00.001-08:00

hey babes!
I'm sure some of u decided not to have a mini pelamin for tunang or nikah because it's pricey.

but for the sake of having it... Why don't u give The Wedding Heaven a try? Like seriously, limited offer to have a mini pelamin for ur engagement or nikah at only RM600!

TWH has not done anything like that before, so give it a shot if u believe in my taste :)

Book yours now!

Email: theweddingheaven@yahoo.com

*RM600 mini pelamin is a promotional price, limited to only 3customers. Normal price is RM1000.

2011 HIGHLIGHTS

2011-12-31T08:41:00.000-08:00

2011 has been a great year for me. I'm blessed. Thank you Allah.

1) Kahwin dengan my favourite guy! oh girls, who wouldn't love a cute dude who is huggable and not only that.... he also do the dish and d laundry, who wouldn't kan?? ;p kiddin'... i love u sayang!

2) Won Anugerah Skrin for Laporan Khas/Berita Terbaik-- can u believe me? i defeated karam Singh in my 20's! woot!

3) I'm healthy, my bonda and ayahanda are both healthy.. Alhamdulillah :)

4) Decorate own home! i never imagine i can be my own Martha Stewart in Kota Damansara.

pssst... living at home alone is seriously creepy. husband go to work 6pm and only come back at 2am, so i go kacau him at the office until d stated time so i dont have to be home alone :)

5) I'm still breathing... I'm alive. Alhamdulillah.

hey girls, thank you sooooo much for reading my blog! i really appreciate u girls reading this not-so-awesome blog. any blog wouldn't b a blog if no one's reading --- baik buat diary kalau baca sorang kan? :) i heart all of u!

Happy New Year everybody! have a great year ahead! i'm sure u will~~~~~ Muacks!!!

p/s: don't forget to visit my biz page to check out 2012 new services:

http://theweddingheaven.blogspot.com/

500 FOLLOWERS!!!

2011-12-18T03:31:00.001-08:00

i'm glad u girls read my blog!

i'm happy to share my thoughts with all of you!

i'm thankful that i have u girls.... who inspire me so much!

hope i can inspire u more, i hope.

Thank you sooooooo much!!!

xoxo

MISS X NIKAH: DIY DECO & STUFF

2011-12-16T06:21:00.000-08:00

DIY date&time counter + wishing tree (takde gambar from OP yet.. wishing tree DIY-ed too!)

DIY strings & cards for wishing tree -- with initials

DIY lego signage with initials

DIY centerpiece : orchids in lacey glass jar

DIY yellow candy buffet!

DIY bridesmaids hand bouquets!

DIY bridesmaids headgear!

semi-DIY bridesmaids attire!

DIY mirrored nikah table :)

DIY nikah corner!! (no need pleamin yeay!)

DIY mirrored box!

DIY photobooth kit!

PUAS HATI!

YAHOO!

xoxo

GREEN GIANT CANDY BUFFET!

2011-12-15T09:49:00.001-08:00

*the bride is taking a tea-break: commercial* ;p

the biggest i've done so far!
not mine, but ezlin's!

thank you ezlin for the trust. hugs.

more pictures, here! (copy & paste the URL ya?) :

http://theweddingheaven.blogspot.com/2011/12/green-giant-candy-buffet.html

MISS X NIKAH: NIKAH FAVORS

2011-12-12T20:53:00.000-08:00

Favors concept: Old English-Traditional Malay

Theme color: Yellow

For the guests: Mangkuk Tingkat with custom choc in organza pouch & homemade wajik :)

Mangkuk Tingkat by: The Wedding Heaven

Organza pouch by: The Wedding Heaven

Custom wrapper choc chunk by: Oh Mai Wedding

Homemade wajik: All the way from Perak

Walaupun pada mulanya i get the tak-pernah-dibuat-dek-orang from my mum, i still proceed after they both gave me greenlight to do as i wish. I want something unique, memorable and exclusive for my guests. Something different!

Alhamdulillah, everyone who attended my small nikah ceremony love the favors so much.

Mangkuk Tingkat simbolizes our orang dolu-dolu yang jadikannya sebagai bekal. juga dikenali sebagai Tiffin or Sia... :) And so does wajik... i added a pinch of English touch by putting in custom choc chunk in organza pouch. So tingkat atas letak choc in organza pouch, tingkat bawah letak wajik :))

Since i had a small nikah of 70pax, i don't mind spending a little more for the guests, as long as they're happy of what they'll bring home with them. :) As for nikah favors the whole combination costs me RM17 for each guests (Mangkuk Tingkat + Wajik + Choc Chunk + Organza Pouch + Ribbons & Tags) and Alhamdulillah everyone love it.

Even Sue Cantik told me, she likes the mangkuk tingkat idea so much, she washed it and keep it well....weeeeeeeeee :)

...Not to mention, the favors jadi bualan rombongan lelaki ye coz they love itas much as we do :)

suka! xx

******

-Mangkuk Tingkat Zebra aka Cap Kuda Belang / cap helang boleh didapati dengan harga borong:

RM250 for 24 Mangkuk Tingkat (retail price: RM21.90-27.90 each di kedai2)

order at: theweddingheaven@yahoo.com

Choc Chunk with custom wrapper:

RM50 for every 100pcs!

Less if u order 1000pcs and above! Get RM20 off if u mention u're my blog reader :)

password: reader Yuyu MissX

order at: ohmaiwedding@gmail.com

Homemade wajik nun jauh from perak, mail me kalau ada b2b perak berminat. Or b2b KL yang sanggup pi amik kat Perak, mail me personally jugak. i bagi contact makcik tu :)

i swear sedap gila. lembut sangat sangat.... the best wajik ever!

Parents my hubby makan sampai licin!

erk.... My parents pun apa kurangnya, lama tak kena wajik. haha licin!!!

Till then!

xoxo

OUR HOME :)

2011-12-11T08:04:00.000-08:00

our little place we call home... :)

i always know what i want.

since back then, i am always The Planner.

from now on, 'I' work as 'We'.. so 'I' cannot be 'I' anymore...

hahaha

We went scouting for furniture since Spetember (2months before our wedding).

Listed down what we need and want for our mini home.

There are series of various aspects to contemplate when choosing our home furniture:

1) how comfy they are

- huggable cushions on a 3 seater couch.. :)

- two chairs with back and arm rests...

- couch is sooo important for us two so we can spend our weekends watching tv togetha comfortably (ada weekend ke aku ni? he-he)... so ya, we invested a little more on the couch.

(i pilih, he bayar haha)

2) the color

- white or grey

- we want our home to be clean,... or at least appear clean :)

so if u bring ur kids, pls make sure they don't doodle on our white furniture or wall ya? ;p

3) the size

- no bulky furniture

- our home is small, 1100sqft, i cannot buy furniture like mum. well, i cannot spend like mum.

we cannot stay in a home like mum's bcoz there's just us two

(hakikatnya belum mampu lagi uols! not there yet....)

Mula hidup as husband and wife, so we can't be lavish... no more biggie homie for me nymore.

i am miss independent! an small apartment for us two is more than enough.. alhamdulillah :)

++++++++++

the only problem i have now is choosing curtains. curtains give me headache!

we want diff types of curtains for every space.

not so dark at the hall -- sheer curtains probably.

sunshine can't go through at our personal space ;p haha

next, to choose a filler color, bagi naik seri hall ;p --- we have white and grey furniture.

so we're still disccussing whether to add purple or yellow .. what say u? :)

then, to buy home deco -- vases, flowers, paintings.

Alhamdulillah...

can't wait to officially move in! :))

TIPS:

1) Jangan rambang mata. Beli apa yang ada dalam list asal sahaja.

2) Furniture are not curtains, u don't change annually (unless banyak duit)... so since furniture are not curtains or bed sheets, we promised to ourselves furniture 5 tahun baru tukar :) so, why not invest a little more on the quality.

3) back to point one, stick to ur / our budget. ours-- mmg we both tetapkan no more than RM15k... strictly. no more than that. sentiasa ingatkan each other jangan rambang mata.... ini pecahan yang both of us buat:

- hall RM4k

- dining / kitchen RM2k

- room RM2k

- deco (curtains / carpets / vases/ flowers / rack/ etc... ) RM3k

- electrical goods ( TV/ Fridge/ Washer ) RM4k

== alhamdulillah byk electrical goods and barang dapur dapat hadiah dr families n friends. tq~==

Happy planning newly weds!!!

MISS X NIKAH : HENNA REVIEW

2011-12-07T08:08:00.001-08:00

**my lovely henna***

so this is the original deisng--- i got it from the internet:

the design of my likings-- i mailed a few henna artists to ask them the fee, availability and whether they can do my preferred design or not...

the henna session bermula!

look at my palm girls! (not my tired face ;p)

see how halus and details her henna drawing~~~

sama dengan the design yang i sent!! (scroll up!)

kak norish drew henna on my kaki by only refering to the printed version of the photo i mailed her! hebatttttttt~~~!

merah gila plsssss. RED!

(not to mention i love my wedding ring + engagement ring together) ;p

and sooo... my first nikah review on my henna which i love, love, love!

i called a few henna artists 2 months before my wedding.

i was shocked knowing how the service can be sooooo expensive.

one henna artist even quoted me RM360.... wuuuuu~~

so i keep on doing research and what not.

apparently price is not my major consent but whether they can draw the henna like how i wanted or not...

i even ask about the color--- i want a red henna

(not orange, nor marron. apatah lagi black.. haruslah tak mau kan?)

i am so lucky to have kak norish as my henna artist.

kak norish and husband reached carcosa seri negara at 3pm.

i walked em to my suite... and kak norish mula melukis.

Goodness.... gila amazed with her talent.

plus, she's so particular on choosing what type of henna.

lain bahagian lain brand ok...?

untuk fingers cap pakai henna lain jenis,

untuk lukis jenis lain....

the reason according to her, tapak tangan lebih cepat merah, so tak boleh pakai inai yang mmg cepat merah sbb by the time dia siap lukis takut inai warna gelap (amazing kan?)

she took 3hours to do the drawings.

serious penyabar sungguh orangnya.

very prompt in replying mails, cepat reply sms and phone calls, lukisan teliti dan halus, bakat semulajadi, inai yang sangat merah, orangnya ramah, all that come with a price....

a REASONABLE price!

trust me... untuk pakej tapak tangan-atas tangan- kaki- kuku tangan dan kaki, semualah----

it starts with RM100!! iyeeeeee

atau kalau nak over bagi design, menjalar sampai atas kaki (tutup parut) ;p --- RM200 only!

sangat reasonable kan? plus... dah masuk transportation fee!

Yahoo!!!

*****
edited: sorry girls!! lupa letak contact number!

Norish Henna: 017-3276448

(tell her yuyu tv3 recommend. anyway, u can always email her ur favourite design-- she can draw accordingly. good luck all!)

MY NIKAH PHOTOS :)

2011-12-01T07:56:00.000-08:00

i had a small nikah ceremony.

sharing precious moments with only 70 people close to my heart.

.beautiful family members & friends.

.simple. nothing to shout about.

.intimate.

to my readers, thank you for reading my blog and sharing ur precious thoughts throughout my wedding preparation.

as u know, i was the wedding planner for my own ceremony :)

from the DIY deco, to the smallest detail like my bridesmaids' handbouquet.

from the choice of color, attire and what not.

me & hubby r even carpenters, in making our own mirrored nikah table. ha-ha

.personal touch.

.and definitely with vass help by some talented people in d w-industry.

Alhamdulillah, it's all worth it :)

exactly like how i always wanted.

simple, small and beautiful.

more photos at my talented official photographer page:

http://bak.my

RIZMAN RUZAINI DRESS (FINAL PRICE!)

2011-11-30T23:04:00.001-08:00

Please scroll down to have a look at the reception dress!!
My friend is willing to let go at a very reasonable price!! No more nego. Please email me for further inquiries...dont comment here.

Choppp!! The price??

RM3k ONLY!!! (including veil)

size and other details, again, pls scroll down :))

EMAIL: whpisy@yahoo.com

VENDORS LIST MISSX :)

2011-11-28T03:13:00.000-08:00

NIKAH: Old English-Traditional Malay (Orchids Affair)
Date: 11.11.11
Accomodation & Venue: Carcosa Seri Negara
Food: Carcosa Seri Negara
Make-up: Sue Cantik
Attire: Qudyn
Hantaran deco: Nuwoo
Hall deco: Flora by Shayra
Flowers: Orchids by Blooms
Favors: The Wedding Heaven / Oh Mai Wedding
Bridesmaids attire: The Wedding Heaven
Invitation: I Like Cards
Signage: Fast Print
Photobooth: The Wedding Heaven
Candy Buffet: The Wedding Heaven
Centerpiece: The Weding Heaven
Photo/Video: Bak Hafiz
Henna: Norish Henna Artist
*special DIY: mirrored nikah table :)

RECEPTION: Midnight Chery Blossom
Date: 18.11.11
Accomodation & venue: Concorde Hotel
Food: Concorde Hotel
Make-up: Sue cantik
Attire: Lagenda by Leng
Pelamin & deco: Nas Great Idea
Photo: Bak Hafiz
Invitation: Doco Cards
Candy Buffet: The Wedding Heaven
Photobooth: The Wedding Heaven
Registration table deco: The Wedding Heaven
Favors: --
.Guests: Customised Sticky Candy -packaging by The Wedding Heaven
.Merenjis: Whittakers peanut slab -packaging by The Wedding Heaven
.VIP: Crystal
Tags: I Like Cards
Signage: Fast Print

just a quick list for sharing purpose.

ps: I have no problem with u but kalau hang cemuih jangan baca blog aku, aku cemuih hang equally. shuhhhh stay away! Just focus on your isolated blog and keep on whining on your savings k? u don't know a thing about ur faggot husband history, SEDIH! so shut up! --- i'm honoured to have a male reader, anyway :)

RIZMAN RUZAINI DRESS !!!

2011-11-28T02:59:00.000-08:00

Reception Dress by Rizman Ruzaini

Details: French lace, chiffon silk, pearls, swarovski crystals, glass bead, ready-sewn corset

Size: M / UK6-8 / suitable for height 155-160cm

Price: RM4k (negotiable)serious buyer only, CASH

-worn once-

email: whpisy@yahoo.com

WEDDING BUDGET!

2011-11-23T22:27:00.001-08:00

Before i start with any sort of review, let me share with u wedding basics--- cash aka budget.

Mungkin ada yg rasa nikah di rumah adalah jauh lebih murah. No-no-no.

First n foremost, buat survey-- an in depth survey.

Utk NIKAH gorgeous di rumah:
khemah transparent 3pcs + cantik chairs RM2k
Catering sedap 300 X rm20 RM6k
Pelamin cantik rumah RM5k
Favors RM1k
*sikap org kita yg segan kalau sedara or kawan nak dtg rumah, maka akan spend on:
Bilik pengantin RM3k
Bagi rumah nampak senonoh sikit dlm sedar tak sedar (carpet/new paint/ curtain /furniture) RM5k
Etc RM1k
TOTAL RM23k

Betul tak? Do u know lebih jimat kalau tak buat di rumah? At the same time meringankan beban org tua. Dan tak penat :))

Renung-renungkan.....

Ps: puas kira, sbb tu saya tak buat di rumah.

SELESAI RECEPTION!

2011-11-20T22:55:00.001-08:00

Alhamdulillah...

Semua berjalan dengan lancar.

I'M A WIFE!

2011-11-13T10:05:00.000-08:00

*excuse this mobile photo. cough cough*

Alhamdulillah.... 11.11.11

i'm in the midst of preparing for my wedding reception which is only a few days away.

anyway, i am extremely glad my nikah was simply beautiful (within my own 2 sepet eyes)

99% turned out exactly like how i always wanted. syukur.

i can't wait to share with u girls the great vendors i know along the way!

from the beautiful venue, henna, flowers, deco, makeup, baju, hantaran, and everything!

stay tuned!!! (kalau sudi he-he)

hugs and many more hugs!

I'M DOING JUST FINE...

2011-11-07T03:15:00.001-08:00

There was a time when I thought life
Was over and out, when you went away from me
My dying heart made it hard to breathe
Would sit in my room because I didn't want to
Have to go out and see you walking by
One look and I'd break right down and cry

Now you say that you made a big mistake
Never meant to take your love away
But you can save your tired apologies
'Cause it may seem hard to believe, but

I'm doin' just fine, getting along very well
Without you in my life, I don't need you in my life
I'm doin' just fine, time made me stronger
You're no longer on my mind

You were my earth, my number one priority
I gave my love to only you anything you'd ask of me
I would do but somewhere down the road
You felt a change in the weather and told me that
You had to journey on a kiss in the wind and your
Love was gone

Now, you say you never meant to play
Your games, girl don't you know it's far too late
Because you let our love just fall apart
You no longer have my heart

I'm doin' just fine, getting along very well
Without you in my life, I don't need you in my life
I'm doin' just fine, time made me stronger
You're no longer on my mind

When you said goodbye, I felt so all alone
There were times at night I couldn't sleep
My heart was much too weak to make it on my own
Baby, after all the misery and pain you put me through
So unfair to me, you're no longer my world
And I ain't missin' you at all

I'm doin' just fine, getting along very well
Without you in my life, I don't need you in my life
I'm doin' just fine, time made me stronger
You're no longer on my mind

ANUGERAH SKRIN 2011

2011-11-05T21:30:00.001-07:00

Alhamdulillah.

Siapa sangka wartawan comot ini mampu naik ke pentas berprestij itu.
Siapa sangka wartawan yg baru bekerja 3tahun ini mampu mengalahkan karam singh yg hebat itu.
Siapa sangka wartawan yg asyik diherdik ini berjaya buktikan usaha gigih kunci kejayaan.
Siapa sangka wartawan yang selalu disalah anggap sebagai bimbo ini berjaya menjulang trofi pewter itu.
Siapa sangka wartawan berbangsa melayu ini merangkul anugerah laporan berita terbaik.
Siapa sangka wartawan yang asyik jadi bahan umpatan ini bukan setakat berjaya dlm pelajaran malah dalam kerjaya.
Siapa sangka wartawan yg tak diberi peluang ini berjaya cari ruang sendiri sebagai batu loncatan.
Siapa sangka wartawan graduan penyiaran ini mampu jadi wartawan berita-- belajar dan mendaki bermula drpd kosong.

Semuanya berkat keluarga yg mendoakan, boss yang menyokong dan rakan yang setia.

Terima kasih Allah SWT

BBF GROUP?!

2011-11-02T18:36:00.001-07:00

Baru tau what happened in bbf group...m not taking sides, and i refuse to comment in the group nor any blog...however, i wish to express my humble opinion here-- no offense:

1) it is true that some people do not know d major purpose of d group-- myself honestly, i dont like some who share bullshit on family matters. u can share a lil something yg boleh diterima, eg: "i sedih my fiance tak bagi tempah baju, suruh sewa. Girls how to tackle him?.... But i dont agree yg ckp "i benci dgn mak i, dia tak bagi duit pon but sebok2 dgn preparation i".... u shudnt tell d world that u r a bitchy daughter to ur parents. For godsake, u r getting married n buruk mana parents pun u need their blessings... Ada je bbf yg ayah dia missing in action, mother dia buat tak heran kat dia--- but they dont say it in bbf group sbb hormat privacy keluarga. By telling everyone in d group about ur family probs, it is proven that u dont have a real life best friend to talk too... Kalau betul pun u dont hv a best friend in real life, go msg ur trusted blogger personally utk luahkan perasaan.

2) it is childish to bitch about anotha woman virtually. d fact that u girls dont even know each other well in real life.

3) for d time being i hv no intention to leave the group because there are times i need opinions from the group. Aku ni bukan kaunselor neither am i a nujum-- but reading some of the comments, it is true that there r a few babes in the group yg punya sifat tak boleh tgk org lain senang, and mempunyai ciri2 menghasut yg tinggi which i bet real life pon takde girlfriends due to her/their nature, kaki cucuk memanaskan keadaan. Seriously.

4) i still love blogger/blogspot. No offense. seriously dlm bbf tu ada yg baru blog 2-3 bulan, ada 10-20 followers dlm blog but gah mcm bagus n try to be miss-know-it-all... Sbok tarik perhatian in d group sbb in blogging world,ur writing sucks no one even know d existence of ur blog. Jujur i ckp ni.seriously. Ya, i still love blogspot, i visit some bloggers and leave my comments if i have a say on a particular entry. If i menyampah, senang je--- tak pyh baca blog yg i menyampah tu. Simple.

So girls, stop hitting on each other. kelakar.

Kthanxbye

REAL WEDDING: DALILA MIAN

2011-10-31T08:58:00.001-07:00

Date: 30th October 2011
Venue: Duchess Place, Ampang
Pelamin + caterer : Duchess Place, Ampang
Make-up: Sue Cantik
Attire: Unaisah Azlan

Hello hello!
I was at dalila's wedding reception--- as her wedding emcee.
i love everything about her majlis--- stunning deco, awesome dress, pretty make-up and... everything!!!

but first and foremost----
Look at her shoes girls!!!! it's Manolo Blahnik uols~~~~! *envy*

i swear semua benda cantik.
when i first stepped in the occasion venue; i was so jakun macam budak kecik.
I have been to many luxurious weddings --- but dalila's wedding mmg special sbb the hall tak tinggi sangat, and the deco penuh!! so nampak sangat detail and somewhat intimate.
and the white chairs~~~~~~ drop dead gorgeous!
Sangat suka!

And people, her pelamin is simply gorgeous kan? i love it so much!
what more with 5 chandeliers on top!
Dalila has such great taste~~~!!!
tak sia- sia plan for so long, her wedding was a real success!!!

congrats dila!
*hugs & many many hugs*

xx

REAL LIFE INTIMATE WEDDING

2011-10-25T09:54:00.000-07:00

* credit to the beautiful couple; bride & groom*

berkahwin di laman rumah pengantin prempuan in the United States, guna garden chair je with beautiful flower deco. sgt intimate.

ayu berselendang and beautiful ukiran henna. beautiful couple.

look at the luscious flowers. the bride beautifully pakai kebaya songket, rantai doko 3tingkat. effortlessly beautiful... and it's undeniable dat the bride mmg cantik.

dengan kehadiran both parents bride&groom, and the grandmother/nenek --i bet. Having the elderly on ur special occasion-- sangat intimate. couldnt ask for more. seriously. they have such a beautiful family.

i bet this attire untuk cake cutting. tukar after the beautiful solemnization.

EVERYTHING IS AWESOMELY BEAUTIFUL!!!

i was browsing my friend's page when i saw beautiful photos of his best friend kahwin with this pretty Malay girl who actually resides in Florida, US. The bride & groom-- both Melayu i think or kacukan melayu. i do not know the beautiful bride, and she definitely tak kenal i pun... but i can't help myself to write about her beautiful wedding and share with u girls.

their wedding sgt intimate... i love intimate weddings attended by a bunch of people i love-- close family and friends only.

like seriously, never in my life ever dream of a grand wedding. mmg i suke something intimate. it touches the softest spot in my heart. maybe if orang tgk saya, ramai sangka saya mahukan majlis grand besar-besaran----they're absolutely wrong. all i want is a small-beautiful wedding. mmg dari kecil macam ni yang saya nak. u can go back to my older posts-- like how i always wanted. intimate wedding.

ok back to this beautiful wedding, i don't know the girl, but pernah jumpa the guy sekali-dua--- mututal friends. but oh-my-goodness..... the wedding is simply beautiful, beautiful and beautiful.

jovial laughing faces, they smiled ear-to-ear, honest photos, all-sincere looking guests, simple deco with beautiful personal touch--- betul2 macam yang i impikan.

insyaAllah~~~ i will get the chance of my own. My guests for nikah is limited to 60pax only, :)) as requested by myself. Mmg betul2 keluarga dan kawan rapat sahaja. Perancangan ni dah dipersetujui kedua pihak since i bertunang 14 March 2010. Alhamdulillah. Asalnya 50pax je ok?... dah dekat ni tambah lagi 10org, jadi 60pax. Final.

On the wedding reception, i rest my case. Bonda n ayahanda have the veto power, saya turutkan sahaja since i have decided anything related to the nikah is solely on me. fair. afteralli trust my parents. thay have a believable taste :) seriously.

xx,

yuyu aziz

*berapa banyak BEAUTIFUL dalam entry ni. can i add another? BEAUTIFUL!!!

MALAYSIA FASHION DESIGNER - DRESS INSPIRATION

2011-10-23T09:54:00.000-07:00

nikah: waist swarovski details :)

ellie saab lace dress, to die for!!!

ALRIGHT, face the fact uols! -- we are not fashion designers but we have so much to explain.
"you, i nak macam ni macamni , tapi leher kena macamni, lengan dia pulak nak macam ni, kat bawah kaki baju pulak macamni..."

Berapa banyak MACAM NI?
because we (women) have so much imagination -- beyond imagination? ;p
even worse, most of us , ramai yang fickle minded (mudah benar cik kiah terpengaruh dengan magazine, tiap minggu jugaklah berubah design dalam fikiran)

I have foundation in arts since I was a student in Cenfad before masuk MMU, then masuk UiTM :)... reti lah sikit2 tak banyak pun ;p but still, bukannya expert sampai tahu semua benda, cuma ada kelebihan sbb suka membaca.

Mampus la nak explain segala neckline kat designer ka n? -- scoop, princess, V, round dan bagai..... Mampus la nak explain pasal lengan - cap sleeve, long sleeve, dll.... so yang mudah adalah berangan---macamana nak berangan? terjemahkan angan2 anda di dalam sebuah lukisan atau foto ;p

myself--- i sketch a few designs (studied the designs before deciding on them)
kunci kata utama, SEDAR DIRI:
1) saya berbadan gempal maka leher kena V-- jangan sesekali boatneck
2) saya berbadan gempal lebih ssuai bebraju gelap (tapi org tua suka jugak baju putih-cream)
3) saya berbadan gempal, kena pakai 2pc atau kena ada detailing dekat pinggang
4) saya berbadan gempal, jangan banyak sangat beading from shoulder to waist-- if not nampak heavy body i yg gergasi ini
5) saya berbadan gempal, pakai pb/spanx --- kalau nak rasa lebih confident, perlukan veil supaya amik gambar takyah pikir lemak di area tali bra... betol tak?! ;p hahahah
*jika badan gempal, janganlah feeling nak pakai tube dress, sleeveless, atau pun wedding dress ala2 cocktail dress paras lutut ye. tak pasal dikeji tetamu ;p*

so untuk baju nikah i bawak a photo of kate's second dress for evening reception--- ada detailing di pinggang, maka itu yg saya request kepada desginer. pada masa sama, mohon buat flowy pleats dekat pinggang-pinggul, supaya tak lekap di situ... risau kalau duduk bersimpuh terbojol perut iuols!! yang pasti kate middleton is super skinny, gamba tu bukan feeling diri sendiri-- cuma nak tunjuk detailing kat pinggang je, sbb takau nak explain camana kat designer secara tepat. ;p

utk baju reception, saya inspired by Ellie Saab 2011 collection, Auriga.... the lace dress sgt cantik! sekali lagi, saya bawa gambar tu bukan sebb feeling kurus, but nak tunjuk the v-neck dress and lengan 3quarter and kain meleret (but mine, i want chiffon--- atas je lace)

mudah kan bawak gambar?! so apa lagi, start googling, print (ada colour lagi bagus) and bring the photo to your fashion designers! if designer macam taknak buat... tanya dia setahu i designer boleh buat semua, sekrang ni u boleh buat atau tak?"... sbb fyi, sbrnya banyak designer di malaysia ni pakai tailors kat luar sana tuuuuuuuu! kekadang tu bukannya depa teri, tau melukis jek! so kena tanya bebetul.... :)) happy dress-making babes!

MALAYSIANS & RSVP?!

2011-10-22T08:49:00.000-07:00

*****Entry ini hanya untuk situasi RSVP utk sit down dinner or strict headcounts (buffet tak termasuk dlm entry ni sbb still flexible)*****

SITUATION 1 : CAKAP BERLAPIK TAK KENA TEMPAT!

Sudah menjadi lumrah rakyat Malaysia when it comes to RSVP:--
Bride: Are you coming? RSVP. need your respond... Prospective guest: InsyaAllah...

it's good to say 'insyaAllah'-- tiada siapa larang. but do you know what insyaAllah really means in RSVP context? maksudnya kamu akan datang, berusaha juga untuk datang. maksud insyaAllah dlm konteks RSVP bukannya-- tengok keadaan. paham?!

so let me all of you out there. jangan jawab gitu lagik. senang je jawapan dia; it's either YES or NO. Tiada istilah MAYBE, buatlah-- kena lempang dengan aku. Why??? it is important to determine head counts. so kalau anda confirm tak boleh datang jangan jawab YES-- sebab katakan di hotel, RM120 per head-- kalau ada 10orang macam korang yg suka hati bedah jawab YES-- tak ke tuan rumah rugi RM1200 dah?! sedangkan kalau korang jawab NO boleh je dia kasi kad dekat org lain... ada paham?? (unless tak boleh datang, notify asap). unless betul2 tak boleh elak--- like myself, in the midst of urus wedding, dengan jadual yang tak tentu hala-- ada wedding yg saya mmg nak sangat pegi tapi kena cancel last minute to fulfill work and family related matters.

SITUATION 2 : UNINVITED GUESTS!

Some people just don't get it! Kalau RSVP, if letak nama " Aminah & pasangan ". Maksudnya DUA orang sahaja ok?? tak kesahlah pasangan anda tu isteri ke, kawan baik ke-- tuan umah tak kisah, asalkan datang seorang atau berdua SAHAJA. jangan pulak " Aminah & pasangan " kau pegi bawak anak 5 orang! tengok tempat la... kalau buffet, mungkin ada kelonggaran sikit, but sitdown dinner tolonglahhhh jangan buat gitu. kau bawak anak 5 orang + 2 orang, 7 orang... katakanlah dekat duchess place RM60++--- anda dah merugikan RM420!!!kalau dah bawak satu proton exora penuh, paling pun kasiklah RM200-- ini tidak, bawah 7pax but kasik RM50! memanglah tuan rumah gembira asalkan anda datang--- but etika tu. paham-paham sendiri ok?

Almost simillar situation-- when it is clearly stated "Aminah & pasangan"... don't you ever ask the bride "Can i bring my 12 year old?" -- Why u shouldn't ask that question? 1) coz it is clearly stated the invitation is for two (unless state otherwise). 2) kids are not allowed? 3) hello cik kak don't leave the bride blinking and feeling guilty la! for god sake she's getting married... takkan kau nak dia jawab "bawaklah..~~~ (dalam nada tak ikhlas?) and kalau kena bridezilla like me you'll get an honest answer "i'm sorry tak boleh... sebab RSVP"... hujungnya kau jugak yang sentap kan? Please read RSVP guidelines, or don't come. :)) *kejam but jujur*

...And another--- if it is clearly stated in the invitation nama anda sahaja, ie: menjemput : AMINAH BINTI AHMAD. maksudnya kau sorang je. toksah pegi jumpa kawan ofis "eh lets go wedding munah together!" or jumpa kawan sekolah " eh! munah nak kahwin next week, dia ada jemput kau tak?" DON'T DO SO! *serious warning* those kind of statement and question is even rude than the bride asking u to RSVP-- which is wayyyy polite! *etiquette*

.. lagi satu, you told the bride "I can't come" but hari majlis you showed up!! menyusahkan je... kalau kata tak datang, toksah datang terus... sbb mungkin your seat tu bride dah bagi kat org lain. ye lah, kita ni org melayu " haaaa mak mertua aku tak jadi turun KL, so besok aku datang wedding kau" huhu bride panic! alamakkk aku nak ltak dia kat meja sapa, aritu kata takleh datang??! pffttttt

SITUATION 3 : THE ABSOLUTE NIGHTMARE TO THE BRIDE!

bride & her family needs you to reply. malangnya, lain suruh buat lain yang korang buat--- ini beberapa kejadian yang menyakitkan hati bride.Jangan jadi golongan ini!:--
1) Jangan cakap dekat bride that you're bringing new boyfriend (yang tak dijemput!)
2) Kalau kawan opis, jangan memandai announce that your kids are coming. (jangan memandai bawak anak kalau kat hall or hotel-- anda mau kanak2 berlari dan panjat pelamin?) -- kalau nak datang sgt, tinggal lah rumah mak mertua atau nursery jap.
3) Hahaha yang ni paling lawak---yang jemput diri sendiri!!! ie: "Eh kau nak kahwin eh? Kau tak ajak aku, siap kau!" (motif?) hahahaha wait for the invitation, if bride n family don't invite just smile and take it positive mungkin lebih ramai yang rapat mereka kena jemput. DO NOT show how thrilled you are about her wedding, sbb mungkin you were never on the guest list pun.

hahahahaha ok tu je buat masa ni :))

ps: in your card, letak ONE mobile number only. orang Malaysia ni i sedar letak number mak, ayah, abang, kakak-- satu keluarga dia letak. macamana orang nak RSVP? kalau dia sms abah awak yang dah 70tahun ala-ala lupa, tak ke dah terlepas RSVP seorang tetamu... betul tak? :) think about it.

KAD KAHWIN !!!

2011-10-20T10:01:00.000-07:00

posted some cards --- ok, sikit je... like 20 je baru hahahaha ;p
setem per card is RM1 only!
selamat....~~~ ingatkan RM2-3, harus i pengsan.
so card utk post 60pcs je. yang lain pass by hand... :)
but anyway, i really really hope i can post them all esok.
so my mum boleh start sending hers and ayahanda's next week.
and tomorrow.... i will be distributing cards at the office. malu pls!
i'm a sucker at accepting compliment and congratulations secara ayu...
bila org puji ke, ckp tahniah tiba2 malu. boleh?
haha padahal kat luar tak pemalu langsung! confident je!
but yg itu i sedar, i malu bila good news.. haha taktahu nak explain macamana ;p
nervous nak bagi invitation card by hand to my bosses and colleagues.

on another note, tadi ada meeting--- suddenly my newly appointed immediate superior announced in the meeting "and to yuyu yang saya dengar akan mendirikan rumahtangga, saya ucapkan tahniah!!!" everyone tepuk tangan i so shy.... so i laughed sebelum nampak muka sepet i tengah malu *_^

i have less than 30 days girls! nervous gila plssssssssss!

*i have chosen 5bloggers to attend my small majlis... out of 58 with warm wishes. thank you so much everyone.i wish ada majlis untuk ajak everyone but unfortunately kena ikut quota yg parents bagi :( ampun ya...?

WEDDING VIDEO by FAD FILM !!!

2011-10-18T10:23:00.000-07:00

You girls,

i'm so sorry!!!

i've been keeping this videos since June!

baru tahu nak upload, itu pon terpaksa compress.

Video ni Full HD, tapi my friend yg tolong upload lower the resolution so tak berat....

pengantin ni both doctors ok? nafiza adik blogger Dalila Mian. :)

Presenting

Wedding video of Nafiza & Zaini

FAD FILM

click on the link:

THE WEDDING RECEPTION---

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tWVf05HiiJg

THE BLOOPERS---

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YsGqX2oE6rA

enjoy!!!

psssstt, harga uols!!!

one event RM1500

two events RM2600

price termasuk harga bloopers and transportation in Klang Valley

if amik one event dapat 1 clip event + 1 clip bloopers = 2 edited clips

if amik 2 events dapat 2 clip events + 1 clip bloopers = 3 edited clips

email depa dekat: fadfilm@gmail.com

MENCARI KETENANGAN.....

2011-10-12T20:14:00.000-07:00

i rarely put up my photos-- sekali letak, ambik kau! sampai 4 keping.... allow me to be vain once in a blue moon... :)

beautiful beaches renowned for their beauty and breathtaking landscape never fail to dazzle and entice moi..... ohmmm nommm nommmm

i have less than 30 days! :)

FITTING BAJU KAHWIN!

2011-10-11T01:14:00.000-07:00

PREMIUM BEAUTIFUL

SPANX SLIMPLICITY CONVERTIBLE FULL SLIP

ok... last year, i was a lot thinner---

this year... 66-68kg!

but with the help of premium beautiful and lactolite which i started 2.5 months back, i lost 4kg up to date!

bangga, bangga... so my current weight is 62-63kg, depends la.. hari period berat sikit sbb water retention.

anyway, my next fitting will be this coming 15th!

and i really really hope it makes lots of difference.

as for my pants, mmg dah longgar :))

cuma satu kerisauan, PB i tu warna hitam... kalau baju warna putih, should i get anotha white/nude color extra corsett?

i was thinking to buy, combine dengan my pb!

boleh ke combine spanx and pb?... pakai pb dulu, pastu pakai spanx, sbb dia nipis je kan?

i nak spanx slimplicity convertible full slip--- dlm website dia: USD76 (size M, warna nude)

Kat malaysia mana nak order?

yang penting, mesti dapat before 1 november ni!

share with me!

PHOTOBOOTH KIT PROMO!!!

2011-10-09T20:43:00.000-07:00

RM20 including postage for the first 10 customers!

email: theweddingheaven@yahoo.com

for further details visit:

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JEMPUTAN KE MAJLIS MISSX!!!

2011-10-09T08:03:00.001-07:00

ehem ehem ada ke org nak dtg majlis saya?
ehem ehem (perasan tau i ni. awwwww. Haha)
saya nak minta maaf awal2 sbb wedding saya kecil, tak boleh ajak random....
kalau saya simply pilih, maybe ada pembaca setia saya yang kecil hati...
jadi utk berlaku adil, saya sudah fikirkan caranya.

I have decided to pick:
1) 5 bloggers for my reception
2) surprise, surprise!

feeling contest pulak i ni. sila muntah darah now! :p
Tak kisahlah jika anda mahu dtg kerana suka baca blog saya, atau nak dtg kerana sekadar mahu tahu dari kad sehingga ke majlis, ataupon mahu dtg kerana nak kutuk majlis saya (ada ke?) hahahaha ingat ya, majlis saya majlis kecil :)

soalan cepu emas?
Saya ingin hadir ke wedding missX kerana..........

Comment here before: 15oktober2011
Sertakan comment dengan alamat office/rumah--- akan dirahsiakan)(jgn sms/jgn email$

(comment adalah rahsia, saya takkan publish.yang dijemput, saya akan surprise-kan anda dgn menghantar kad via poslaju)

Sorry sgt, buat gini sbb taknak ada yg kata saya pilih kasih, pilih bulu, dll... Pemilihan berdasarkan keikhlasan comment anda and sejauh mana kesetiaan membaca blog saya :)

Sayang koranggggg!

AKU BENCI STEREOTAIP!!!

2011-10-05T12:16:00.001-07:00

No offense. But siapa yang rasa ego adatnya tinggi, jangan baca entry ini. Jangan baca entry ni kalau pemikiran sempit dan 100% nak ikut adat dari zaman nenek moyang hang.

1)
SITUASI: saya dan tunang bersetuju buat hantaran 9 balas 9. Maka, si hamba Allah berkata "eh mana boleh, pompuan kena bagi lebih kat laki. 11 balas 9, 9 balas 7 gitu"....
MOTIF?!: apa masalah kau makcik? nak bagi lebih ke, bagi kurang ke... cukup bagus aku ikut adat yg kau nak sgt ni, sbb benda2 ni takde dalam ajaran agama islam pun. Saya buat juga hantaran ni pun kerana nak sedapkan hati kau. dah tu takkan kami kaum hawa ni kena nampak tongong combine 3barang atas satu dulang gara2 kuantiti dulang kena sikit drpd laki?? Pk la... Tak pasal aku campur semua dlm satu dulang tapi minta kau asingkan mcm dlm cerita musang berjanggut.
LESSON: jangan obses sgt dgn adat jumlah dulang ni. satu sen pun tak dihulur, jangan byk komen. B2B tetapkan pendiriab jgn di ikut sgt stereotaip karut ni.

2)
SITUASI: keluargaku bersetuju adakan resepsi 500pax, kata bonda "biar kita dpt jumpa and sembang dgn setiap seorang yg dijemput" kata ayahanda "biar bersederhana, asalkan semua yg hadir kita kenal,bukan spesis heret satu lori keluarga".... Kata makcik dlm nada nak sterotaip dan tak bersetuju dgn keluargaku..."kamu tau tak, haritu belah isteri cousinnya si polan jemput sampai 2ribu org tau! Meriah sgt! Ramai sgt dia buat besar-besaran sbb ayah dia penolong pengarah felda tau!"
MOTIF?!: so what? kalau jemput 2000org itu kau jadikan ukuran besar-besaran? Motif kalau harga katering satu kepala 6hengget, pelamin wrought iron zaman 80-an, dapatlah. And anyway makcik, penolong pengarah tu gred kerajaannya setaraf je ngn budak baru yg dpt degree pun masuk gred 41 jadi penolong pengarah! Sedihlah bapak bini anak sedara kau tu kalau umor 50 baru pgkt penolong pengarah. Hello... Anak KSU, anak KP pun boleh humble, kau apa kes? to me, sebelum bercakap buatla research... If pangkat, kuantiti dan duit jadi ukuran kau, meh aku kasitau realiti! kalau org buat dkt hotel, satu kepala average rm120, kali 500pax pun dah 60k tau! Tak masuk deco baju bagai lagi. Yg kau agungkan 2000pax tu, kata kau besar-besaran, kali 6hengget, baru 12k!
LESSON: So kalau kuantiti dan wang ukuran kau tanda besar-besaran, lihatlah yg kau keji 500pax tu nilainya 5kali ganda RM kenduri penolong pengarah ekau tu haaaa..Kau ada?! Nan hado! So makcik2 cik pong, jgn stereotaip berdasarkan jumlah jemputan ok??!

3)
SITUASI: mas kahwin hak si pengantin perempuan, maka si pengantin lelaki mahu kasi lebih sikit... Tanya si makcik kepada bakal pngantin perempuan, "eh nikah KL mas kahwin RM80 je kan, ok la tu kan? Ke nak lebih?"... Apa punya soalan da... Takkan pengantin pompuan tu nak jawab org tua, "ha'a nak lebih!" pk sikit, bagila open ended question, bijakkkkkk!
MOTIF?!: janganlah tunjuk kedekut sgt makcik oi. Anak kau yg belajar tak berapa nak pandai pun kau letak wang hantaran 15ribu! Ini kisah mas kahwin, kalau lelaki nak kasi katakanlah RM500, biarlah dia.... Itu hadiah dia utk isteri dia. yg kau nak dia bagi rm80 genap2 je apahal? Kalau dia kawen ngn gadis selangor rm300, takkan kau tanak bagi? ... Kalau aku jadi kau makcik, aku yg malu dengan diri sendiri--- anak kau kawen dengan anak keluarga terpelajar,bakal isteri anak kau pun org yg belajar tinggi... Be yourself, at d same time find alternatives to at least be almost at par with ur new in-laws.
LESSON: If i were u makcik, i will find ways not to embarassed myself dgn bakal biras.. I will shower my future daughter in law to prove that i can give as equal. Jgnlah malukan diri sendiri tunjuk sikap kedekut taik idong masin tu! Jgn stereotaip, berkira sgt nilai harga anak dara org lain-- siap nak diskaun! Semata2 sbb kau rasa pompuan bandar ni tak pandai buat kerja rumah, tak pandai masak. Mana kau tau?! bukan smua org bandar tak reti buat keje rumah tau! Anyway, kami di sini bekerja bukan posing kat rumah tunggu laki balik je. Kalau pose kat rumah, taktau buat keje rumah layaklah di humband dlm lombong, but if menantu kau bekerja dia reti buat 2-3 kerja rumah pon dah cukup bagus tau! At least dia tolong anak laki kau add on to family income! ... Btw, bila tiba tang anak dara kau sendiri, mcm2 kau demand kat keluarga laki padahal anak dara kau belajar ala kadar je, kemahiran kerja2 rumah pun nan hado, ada degree cgpa syahdu grad dpt kerja kerani je, itupon kau letak rm15k hantaran. Berangannnnn! Cerminlah diri n anak sendiri dulu!

Itu je 3 pengajaran kepada makcik2 stereotaip di luar sana.... Kalau aku luah depan muka, kau sentap kan??!

Kthanxbye

PROSEDUR NIKAH: A to Z

2011-10-03T21:42:00.001-07:00

SITUATION:
Myself-- lahir di kl. Menetap di kl selama 18 tahun. Namun, terbaru menetap di selangor,9tahun. IC dalam purse, alamat selangor. Mana kita lahir or tinggal lama, tak kira. alamat terakhir menetap yg di ambil kira. Jadi prosedur saya under SELANGOR)

Fiance-- lahir di johor. Menetap di johor sejak kecik. IC dalam wallet, alamat johor. Namun kerana kerja, fiance menyewa di bndr utama, selangor sehingga hari ini 6tahun. walaupun tmpt lahir johor, alamat dlm IC johor, namun fiance isi borang permastautinan/menetap di selangor since lebih 4bulan menetap di pj, so his procedure under SELANGOR. (so korang if bakal husband kerja kl/selangor takyah susah2 balik kampung, boleh settle sini. Yg perempuan boleh jugak but dinasihatkan balik hometown coz perlukan wali, etc...)

Proses dokumen: selangor (JAIS)
Lokasi nikah: KL (JAWI)
So?: both me n fiance kena minta kebenaran nikah luar daerah/negeri (nanti i explain)

PROSEDUR step by step:
1) HADIR KURSUS pra-perkahwinan:
Tak kisahlah di negeri mana2. Bayaran RM80 seorang. Valid seumur hidup. Dinasihatkan pergi dengan kawan2 a.k.a anotha couple. If pegi dgn tunang shj, boring takde kwn sembang2 sbb lelaki n perempuan duduk asing. Ambil masa 2 hari, actually less than that :)
-sabtu: 2-7pm
-ahad: 8.30am-5.30pm
Reccomended kursus kahwin venue: TTDI
(all 6speakers were soooo funny,even funnier than raja lawak ok?! In a knowledgable way... interesting! Call Kak ana - 0129783149)
*sijil kursus pra-perkahwinan akan diperoleh within 3-5days :)

2) HIV test
Di KL/Selangor hanya boleh dibuat pada hari Isnin, Rabu, Khamis. Dan, HANYA di antara pukul 2-4pm.... Dahlah 3hari shj, pendek pula masanya. Yg bekerje ofis isnin-jumaat, kena amik offday ya :) . Kerana tempoh ciput iaitu hanya 2jam satu sesi, anda kena buat appointment-- bukan main terjah je. 2011 is wayyy different than 2009/2010 kdg2 nasib baik dpt walk in.. 2011 jgn harap! Apatah kalau dekat bandar. For an example: i called 28th September baru2 ni... Di klinik kesihatan kerajaan kelana jaya, puchong, sg buloh, shah alam, rawang, bndr tasik selatan, pantai, bangi, haha hampir semualah fully booked until 19th october!!! Maka, jgn terlalu confident nak walk in ya? Again, 2011 is not as easy in town. Setelah call smua yg dlm lisy, hanya 1clinic yg kosong, Kuang (nun di hujung selangor). Kami nak settlekan awal, so kami pegi.
Bayaran: RM1 only
Masa daftar+isi borg+tunggu giliran+tunggu result= 1jam20minit (if tak ramai psgn, 30minit dah siap kata orf klinik)-- hari yg saya pegi ada 9pasangan.
ps: peduli apa korang kaya raya ke, apa ke... Hiv test hanya boleh dilakukan di klinik kerajaan ONLY! So, toksahlah berangan nak pantai ke, sjmc ke, prince court ke... Korg kena tempuh klinik kerajaan :) --
Validity: result hanya valid 3bulan, bukan lifetime, so if kawen bulan march, buat bulan january mmg the best! Igt, jgn lengah kerana adakah anda pasti urusan depan penghuli, tok imam, jabatan agama semua akan berjalan lancar?? Jwpnnya selepas ini!

3) LELAKI selesaikan segala dokumen (jika bermastautin)
Tunang saya org johor, namun dah 6tahun menetap di selangor so dia kena isi borang1, borg mastautin-- jumpa penghulu, and bawak 2saksi (the best is rakan kerja atau kawan rumah sewa).. Takyah nak susahkan diri carik sedara dtg dr kampunh hokay? Dan igt, saksi 2org tu kena ngam sbb kena susahkan dorg sikit mintak tolong fotostat IC.Tok penghulu dah chop, bawa ke tok imam berhampiran. my fiance currently tggl di bandar utama, so jumpa imam situ.
Bab ni, 2saksi tu pun kena ikut and jgn bawak yg nervous, bawak yg peramah :) sbb tok imam bukan sekadat mintak sign, dia mintak jugak baca sumpah memberi maklumat benar... So if yg gagap2, pemalu, suara pelahan tu toksah bawak. Bawak saksi yg confident.

4) LELAKI to jabatan agama
My fiance kena pergi JAIS utk endorse, dan dapatkan kebenaran berkahwin di luar daerah... In my case, di KL.. settle je, akan dpt number rujukan. Bawak segala dokumen yg dah disahkan--- SERAHKAN KEPADA bakal pengantin perempuan (sayalah tu! Hehe)

5) WANITA mula process
setelah terima dokumen si lelaki yg dah disahkan jabatan agama, now peranan bakal pengantin perempuan. Pilih satu hari, 4org ini WAJIB ada---Bakal pengantin perempuan, wali aka ayah, 2saksi. 4org ni bersama2 pergi jumpa tok imam masjid berhampiran rumah. (kalau sorg takde, takkan settle-- tok imam takkan sign) andddddd TAK BOLEH sign siap2 kat rumah, 4org yg terlibat ni kena sign depan tok imam sbb tu all 4must b there :) adalah background check sikit --kerja kat mana, dulu belajar kat mana. My tok imam pun sama ngn tok imam di bndr utama dia mintak kami semua baca sumpah maklumat benar tu sebelum sign :) again, jgn bawa saksi yg gagap2 or pemalu ya... Haha. Kemudian, tok imam saya pun endorse!!! Ps: dia akan mintak dokumen si lelaki yg lengkap before proceed with ours, kalau yg lelaki tak lengkap-- jwbnya kena rejectlah!!!

6)COMBINE BOTH DOCUMENTS
Kedua2 say dan fiance ke JAIS mintak kebenaran nikah di KL. JAIS akan keluarkan surat kebenaran.

7) NEXT JABATAN AGAMA
Dari jais, kami ke jawi bg surat kebenaran tu utk daftar di KL. Selesai prosedur, minta number possible pendaftar a.k.a qadhi. Dia akan bagi list panjang. Hubungi one by one tanya "free tak pada sekian tarikh, sekian masa" katakanlah ditakdirkan 20org yg uols call tak free... Carilah tok imam masjid berhampiran dgn lokasi nikah, atas budi bicara. If susah sgt, adjust time dan aturcara ikut jadual qadhi, asalkan korg dpt tarikh yg korg nak kan? Haha If takde jugak, abaikan angan2 nikah di lokasi impian, pi nikah kat masjid... Pastu dtglah kembali ke lokasi impian utk begambar hahah :)

8) SELESAI?
Yerp! Kalau semua berjalan lancar-- kursua kahwin awal, HiV booking 3months before, dokumen lelaki dan perempuan settle, tok imam yg chop tak songeh, tok qadi berjaya di book ikut tarikh dan masa... Alhamdulillah~

PENTING!!!
logiknya kenapa pegi hiv test kena awal-- bygkan situation ini jika anda berlengah;katakanlah nak nikah 1december, hiv test 10november baru nak call,-- buat appointment 20november je klinik free. So confident sbb ada 10hari lagi, bygkan tok imam belah laki reject, tok imam belah pompuan pon byk songeh-- So 25nov baru dpt settle all dokumen, pi jabatan agama dia ckp BYE-BYE, tukar tarikh nikah hahah kenapa??!
1) kena submit at least 7hari sebelum tarikh nikah
2) dia peduli apa korg merayu dah booking khemah ke, catering ke, ritz carlton ke, mandarin oriental ke. Booking makeup artist ke, pelamin ke, semua dia tak peduli. anda lambat siapkan dokumen, anda nikahlah lambat ya? jawapan depa "takpe, kalau dah booking itu-ini, awak kenduri lah dulu, nikah kemudian"... NAK MACAMTU?? Taknak kan???
3) katakan anda berjayalah submit ngam2--- 7hari before nikah, ingatlah-- Qadhi zmn skrg kena ikut mukim, kalau fully booked jwbnya kena tukar ikut masa qadhi free, or kena nikah beramai2 kat masjid!! Haha simpan saja angan2 nak tunduk ayu malu2 utk nikah di rumah ;p
4) kalau ikut hukumnya nikah sah asal cukup rukun nikah. Tapi memandangkan ada peraturan dr segi pendaftaran--kenalah jugak ikut. kalau kamu takde qadhi n berdegil gak-- contoh? Nikah kat kl tp amek pakcik kamu yg alim kat utara nun dtg kl nikah-- mmg sah ikut hukum. But ikut peraturan negara nanti kamu kena nikah 'again' kat jbtn agama :) di mana daerah kamu register utk nikah, sbb skrg ikut PPN kawasan.

Ps: a little funny when i just got to know there's a fixed price for the qadhi n saksi2 yg qadhi bawa... Selangor total sampai rm400 sumthing. Tu my father kata, kalau ustaz dulu tolong nikahkan ikhlas, ikut tuan rumah nak hulur berapa-- skrg qadhi pon jbtn agama letak harga. Hanya pndgn yg dibincgkn sesama ahli keluarga saya... :)

PENTING LAGI!!!
1) waktu jumpa tok imam n jabatan agama, yg free hair harus bertudung litup. Menghormati mereka. Kalau kena imam yg amat warak, kalau kamu masuk rumah dia or masjid berselendang pun, di takkan sign....suruh kamu balik, dtg semula bertudung sbb tanda hormat.
2) saksi jgn sambil lewa. Kena ikut adab sama dgn pemohon. Saksi dtg pakai seluar pendek tak dibenarkan sign ok?! saksi adik beradik dtg dressup hiphop ala singlet basketball n walaupon sluar panjang baggy pun tak diterima! So pls pick ur saksi correctly.
3) wali a.k.a bapa kalau si pengantin anak sulung, igtkan bapa tu suruh dia remember tarikh nikah...sbb wajib tulis sekalipun surat nikah yg dah berumur 50tahun tu hilang.igtkan bapa anda to ask his siblings incase he forgot and ada sedara yg igt. Hahha you know men, apatah lagi org lama, motif tarikh nikah, tarikh anak2 and bini sendiri pon dia tak ingat! hahahahah
4) jgn pakai liquid paper atau terlalu byk kesalah menulis dan mengeja di borang2 permohonan nikah. If salah, print je baru rather than kena rejxt kat jabatan agama :)

PAY ATTENTION TO THE POiNTS ABOVE!
Kesalahan kecil mampu malambatkan segala proses, seriously!!!

Moga anda semua dpt manfaat dari article
MissX ni :). Good luck!!! Xoxo

5 YEARS AND COUNTING

2011-09-27T08:48:00.001-07:00

I was born on March 14th,1984. A true Pisces. And my fiance-- he was born on June 30th,1982. His zodiac is Cancer.

We both have different traits. I am very artsy, bubbly, confident,independant, meticulous, an impromptu speaker, loves the limelight, easy-going, crack on stupid jokes, byk songeh at home but appears charismatic n firm at work. Bossy at times, fussy most of the times. Huhu Impatient; i walk fast, talk fast, write fast... :) romantic haha, sensitive, and... Ya, i love kids A LOT. Haha suka masak, suka hias tapi malas sikit bab mengemas (asthma tak tahan dust haha)... Oh and i prohibit myself being friend with any sort of detergents. In a way, i hate to do the dishes n laundry, i'd rather pay. Haha gila jujur tak?

Himself is another side of yours truly.like seriously, totally different. He's quiet, shy, emotional, not as confident, clumsy versi comel and... ibu's boy hahaha anyhow, he's protective, loving, caring, open minded, rational, understanding, very polite, he makes no jokes but laughs at my stupid jokes, haha tak pernah jealous (senang i haha), unsociable and likes to stay at home (kalah i ok? mcm anak dara).. On another note yang comel-- when he dtg lepak my parents home, he automatically tidy up the living hall-- bukan mula2 kenal dulu je, sampai skrg pun. Mmg tabiat dia suke mengemas (senang i kan? Haha) :) ....sometimes i send my baju to him at the office, and he'll return them in 2days clean and wangi. Apa punya perempuan la i ni kan? Haha but he whines not :) not even once in 5years.

26th SEPTEMBER is so special to both of us. 26th SEPTEMBER 2006 we started went out dating (officially)...
And this year....
26th SEPTEMBER 2011 marks our 5th year together--- through thick and thin, with loads of laughter, tears, and what not.
We'll be celebrating our 6th year as husband and wife on the next 26th SEPTEMBER. InsyaAllah.

I am more than happy :)

*nanti saya upload photos celebration smlm ye? He brought me dkt his one hidden diner, sgt romantic plsssss. suka!*

PELAMIN.... NO???

2011-09-26T00:52:00.000-07:00

i swear, i adore this soooooo much. but to buy the couch itself, i bet is triple the price of a pelamin nikah. so kenalah abaikan yang gorgeous ini.

yang ni kelihatan oh-so-cosy-feels-like-home. i definitely want something like this for nikah. but to hire someone to do home-deco like, siapa ek?

last but not least--- i love the whole look of this template.... i like the big-fat couch, sangat selesa dan rasa macam kat rumah. i love the rings shot. i love the small posies on d table with lace spread, i ove the bride's hand bouquer, her veil, her dress.... but i want a but, rambut i lepas sure kembang! hahah

so, i opt for NO pelamin. YES to home ambience nikah...so, a couch for me :)

thank you

SPONSOR??

2011-09-24T11:28:00.001-07:00

Saya bukan artis yang berduyun2 sponsor carik, bagi free. Haha
Saya hanya seorang wartawan penyiaran di tv3 who is jovial and laughs like nobody's watching... Dan setakat ni alhamdulillah persiapan guna duit sendiri dan keluarga. Setakat termampu.
Apapun i'm so thankful to have u girls as my followers n blog readers.
Kerana andalah, hasil penulisan saya yg tak seberapa ni successfully gather 413followers yg tercatat on my sidebar.

Dan saya juga dikenali some b2b di Malaysia ni kerana korg yg reccomend lt kawan2 korg to read my humble blog. Terima kasih sgt.
Tiada apa yang gah dpt saya kongsi kecuali celoteh saya dan meluahkan apa yg terjadi sepanjang persiapan perkahwinan serta berkongsi apa yg terdetik di hati dgn telus tanpa bersembunyi. Dengan harapan dpt beri inspirasi kpd b2b semua.... :)

Blog ini simple.
Pakai default template, tiada flash, tiada lagu background, tiada blog roll yg panjang, tiada countdown ticker, tiada feedjit, tiada chatbox, tiada iklan yg berjela, tiada gambar diri sendiri yg belambak dan sebagainya.
Yang jelas ada hanya 2--- saya (penulis) dan anda (pembaca) terima kasih sgt sgt. Saya hargai setiap satu drpd anda.

Dan juga menjadi rezeki, walaupun bukan artis-- hanya wedding blogger kerdil ada juga individu yang baik hati menawarkan khidmat make-up, corset, photography, videography.
Ada yg offer diskaun, ada yg bagi free tros atas dasar win-win situation.
Kepada yg mempunyai perniagaan dan hubungi saya untuk di promote, terima kasih saya ucapkan but ada sikit pesanan:
1) saya boleh lakukan win-win situation; saya review, anda beri service. But with one condition... Anda masih baru bertapak tidak lebih setahun.
2) kenapa? Sbb saya sokong bakat baru--who has all the potential and work really hard but do not know where to start. Saya jadi marketing executive tanpa gaji asalkan buar hati saya rasa anda benar2 perlu diketengahkan. :)
3) apa motifnya wedding blogger? Saya harap anda vendor2 jgn perlekehkan kuasa penulisan-- jika penulisan boleh hasillkan seorang bintang dr kuala lipis bernama siti nurhaliza... Begitu juga penulisan boleh jatuhkan seorang artis lelaki yg hebat bakatnya tp lupa diri diangkat dari felda (anda mgkin tahu siapa)-- so vendor jgn riak dan bersikap acuh tak acuh dgn wrdding blogger ye? Apatah jika carik pasal dengan BBF, cari pasal jawabnya, gulunh tikar nanti.
4) ada tulis utk bakat baru tanpa win-win situation? Ada--Unaisah, Leng, antara mereka yg berbakat and tak dikenali when i bumped into them. Selepas penulisan yg saya hasilkan saya percaya pintu rezeki mereka terbuka dan berduyun2 client cari.bukanlah saya hendak mendabik dada, tapi diakui oleh mereka sendiri.Saya tak dpt apa2 promote mereka tetapi kepuasan apabila unaisah yg sweet itu selalu ckp terima kasih dan layan saya n bonda saya. Ikhlas orgnya. :) and leng pulak even texted me "u r such and angel, god sent u and give us hope. Tq tq tq"... lebih 10org jumpa dia in a week. :) saya pun tekejut, tak sangka. Dan beberapa vendor lagi yg setiap client dtg enquire bgtau yuyu tv3 reccomend, some vendors sms cko tq. Saya happy utk mereka. :))
5) kenapa tak review yg dah famous? Saya review juga yg famous. Tapi takde lah melambung kerana mereka sudah mempunyai platform sendiri dan byk publisiti di media massa, so review blogger picisan spt saya ni apalah sgt kan? Puas hati review bakat baru sbb mereka hargai saya.
6) macam mana tarik reader? Saya tak tarik readers, semuanya jasa anda semua yg baca blog saya. Jasa blogger2 lain yang refer and link kan saya. blog ni hidup pun kerana bride2be and wedding blogger lain yg rajin singgah berkongsi pendapat. Korang mmg the best! :)

Tanpa korang siapalah saya. I love u.

TOK KADI! HELP ME!

2011-09-21T11:48:00.001-07:00

Hello semua,
Saya tinggal di shah alam 8 tahun.
Sekalipun tinggal di KL 19 tahun sblm ni, jabatan agama ikut alamat terakhir aka alamat IC.
So, dah 8 tahun dok shah alam ni family kami takdelah begaul sgt sbb my housing are consists of 30 buah rumah only. mostly chinese n expatriates. So kalau nak carik imam kena pi anotha perumahan bertanya... But that doesnt matter sbb saya tak kahwin di sgor. Nikah di kl, jd kena amik tok kadi kl kan?

Apapun the thing is, saya menetap di shah alam tp akan kahwin di kl, dgn mengisi borang nikah luar daerah. Maka, sesiapa ada direct contact/ mobile number tok kadi yg kamu kenali ataupun yg pernah nikahkan anyone of u, do share ya? Nak kasi my dad call depa... :)

Thank you

Ps: kenapalah complicated peraturan dan borang2 urusan nikah kat malaysia. Setahu saya, rukun nikah--pgntn lelaki, pgntn perempuan, wali, akad, 2org saksi. If saya kawen kat kutub utara, tak isi borang permastautin bagai pun takpe sbnrnya, asal cukup rukun nikah yg 5 itu-- sah lah kan?

Borang2 semua tu utk tujuan pendaftaran di negara kita je-- awat la complicated kan ngn kertas2 tu, menyukarkan laluan org nak bina masjid. Anyone? Any opinion?

SINDIKET EJEN-PEMBANTU RUMAH

2011-09-16T19:41:00.001-07:00

omygod i hv to share this!
my mum took a maid smlm from seorang perempuan bernama Linda from ampang no telefon 019-207xxxx. I kena reveal supaya org lain tak tertipu. dia iklankan di internet tawarkan maid dan sebagainya. So jgnlah terpedaya ya?

so maid diambil semalam, orang jawa. yang hairan tu bila dia ikut my parents balik ke rumah kami, dia tak bwk beg pakaian pun. Bawak plastik je... Jadi on d way to shah alam dia mintak bawak dia kat chowkit nak jumpa kakak dia. so dia turun kete, tinggalkan brg dia suh my parents tunggu kejap.

Dah 2jam tunggu, dia tak muncul! Dah lari ok??? Tak sempat jejak rumah lagi, on the way pun dia boleh lari!!! So my mum called si perempuan linda ni she asked my mum to balik rumah sbb she said mesti maid tu dah lari...

Seolah ada pakatan si ejen ajar maid nak buat apa. Amik duit muka dari majikan, pastu maid lari, ngangalah!! so si ejen ni buat kerja recycle ni. bayangkan kalau tiap bulan dia buat camni. Katakan majikan bayar duit muka rm3k, sbulan ada 20org majikan amik maid dari dia. Maid lari--, sebulan 60ribu dia dapat free camtu je!!!

Laporan polis akan dibuat segera.

BRIDE WITH ECZEMA (dont shy away)

2011-09-15T12:05:00.001-07:00

Do u know what is eczema?
Any of u with eczema?
Lost self-confidence?
Hiding ur flaws under a long sleeve, turtle neck, socks or covered shoes?
Looking for a wedding dress that wont show those scars?

Let me tell u..i'm a patient. i hv chronic eczema back then (still hv em now but not as bad) last time my skin was thick and scaly nmpk mcm org masuk bendang. tried numerous specialists since i was 21-22, yerp. 5-6years back it started. I had none during school days infact i was an active student;-- i won 3rd place in national cooking competition, best debater in selangor debate comp, captain for d netball team, played handball and hockey. Pantun, menari, menyanyi semualah i active-- pages if i were to list em all down.

Ya, i never thought i'll hv such skin disorder-- sensitive towards weather, heat/cold, sweat, seafood n a lot more.in the earlier years, my palms were very dry and scaly. Sometimes my skin got injured badly;-- eczema sliced my skin like papercuts (without paper). I do not know; it happened naturally or i scratched during bedtime. Yerp eczema is beyond itchy. 88times itchier than mosquitoes bites. Seriously, anyway it first attacked my mid palm and then my fingers.. Yeah its ugly. I was so shy to shake hands with people i meet. And embarassed everytime the cashier passed me the balance (coins) that i had no choice but to tadah and cashier will definitely gv me a weird expression looking at my ugly hands.

Some insensitive friends even made stupid jokes of the skin disorder i hv without even thinking how it affects me as an eczema patient emotionally. Some said "ewwwww! Gross!" and some might quietly think the skin major cause sbb pengotor. How stupid. but well i wish i can say right on their faces "hey not-so-knowledgable friend, eczema is NOT contagious. Eczema has got nothing to do with hygiene. Its in our blood and we never ask for it, idiot!"

Ya, how i wish... u know what people, as a woman-- harsh remarks seriously break my heart. I've been to soooo many specialists and spent thousands of RM for the treatment. Name it--- sjmc, dsara specialist, tropicana, hosp selayang, hkl, klinik kulit ttdi, klinik kulit in bb and some other. but no one manage to cure.

In 2009, i gave up and started steroid jabs. I went to the doc every month for d jab tho d doctor kept reminding me of the side effects. Since then i gained loads of weight. from 54kg in 2009, now im 66kg. Seriously. Appetite bertambah and the effect of steroid jabs--moonface, bloated. But thats the shortcut to non-ugly skin on my palms and feet.

For 2 years with steroid jabs, this year i realized i encounter difficulties in breathing. So i stop taking d jabs and mula looking for treatments again; here n there. What more im getting married, sure i want a beautiful henna drawings not eczema-maps on hands and feet, aite?

And alhamdulillah someone introduced me to dr noraziah, demc. After more than 20skin specialists since 2005, i'm definite dt dr noraziah is my life and wedding savior. My first treatment was in july.and latest-- today at 10.15am... i can see major progress. Eczema on my two hands TOTALLY vanished! and on my feet, say from 20bintang (spot-scars) i now only have some and they are no longer thick and scaly.

My big day is approaching, i pray eczema will hilang so i can apply beautiful red-henna on my hands and feet :))

To those who hv eczema, dont be embarassed-- u are not alone. n remember, never ever give up!

talk to me. I dont mind. and with open arms,i'll share details n my experiences w d skin specialist. Kita kena ikhtiar.... :)

*BIGGGGG HUGGGG!!!*

MANA MAU DPT BIBIK? URGENT!

2011-09-14T18:54:00.001-07:00

Ok uols, i am maid-less dah sebulan dah rasanya.... so kesian kat my mum, penat. i nak tolong but working schedule is freaking pack, i cant help much. nak amik cleaning service my mum taknak pulak sbb dia mmg pesen olskool; nak maid masak, siapkan cucu dia pegi sekolah bagai kan... Haruslah takde cleaning service offer camtu haha. So korang, tau tak mana nak dpt instant maid? Please help me. Kalau yg ada maid dua org kat rumah tu, kasik pinjam kat i satu boleh? i pay salary until agent kasik maid tetap. Pls help me......!!!

BAJU KURUNG LYCRA IS BACK!!!

2011-09-13T02:41:00.001-07:00

our best seller during raya! BAJU KURUNG LYCRA MISTY GREY (dark grey)

whether you are skinny... or u're wearing hijab, our baju kurung lycra tetap gorgeous dipakai!
(yang ni almost tiffany. tapi real lif warna dia cair lagi.. sbb sunlight/outdoor nampak gini)

also for those yang chubby dan juga mereka yang free-hair.. pun cantik!

(this is tangy orange, real life a bit darker. yang ni sbb lighting dewan)

I HAVE 16 COLOURS IN TOTAL, U CAN CHOOSE FROM!!!

and these are the colours!!! **click to enlarge**

mail me: whpisy@yahoo.com

write the subject as: BAJU KURUNG LYCRA

and leave your details:

-name:

-colour code:

-address:

-mobile number:

We previously sold them at RM150 each.

That's Raya Promo---the baju is back to its normal price RM164 each.

but hey! still a good buy if u were to compare with boutique price of RM250-RM300 right??

come grab them!

ORDER BEFORE 25th September 2011!!!

p/s: poslaju is RM6

mail me: whpisy@yahoo.com

ORDER BAJU KURUNG LYCRA!

2011-09-11T10:15:00.001-07:00

Alrite you girlssss sorry sgt tak menang tangan nak reply email those yang nak order.

i need to makesure smue well organized dan supaya senang nak sort mail order and mail reader bertanya soalan berkaitan wedding.

Siapa yang nak order waktu email tulis the subject: BAJU KURUNG LYCRA

Anyway, during raya promo we sell them at RM150. Dah tak raya harga back to normal pemborong price RM164. Tak byk beza pun compare to boutique yg jual RM250-RM280.

New colors coming in.
Order akan dibuka 15SEPT until 20SEPT ONLY!
Jadi visitlah blog missx everyday ya?

Love

THIS IS LIFE (reality)

2011-09-08T07:45:00.001-07:00

I first knew love when i was 17.
And the proposal was so romantic, at coffee bean klcc when he knelt down on one knee with a blue rose and asked me to be his girlfriend.
When the whole space smiled and applaud including his twin brother who witnessed the occassion.
we went through ups n downs.
i was excited all over.. you know, first love.
I cooked for him-- poslaju in the morning and food will reach him by petang at his matriculation.
We shared notes, helped each other in studies.
I made cards (handmade) on every single occassion and so did he. I know, how romantic kan? We painted d house together. He made me sing in front of d public coz he tahu how i love to sing, play guitar and what not. Not to mention my voice isnt that bad :) i went to highschool prom with him, even performed the next year's prom. We dedicated songs to each other most of the time; 112,boyz2men and his karaoke fav nothing's gonna change my love for u...Boleh? When he fell sick, i buat wut i hv to do. when his skin got infected, i donc mind to rub the medicine without gloves. how gross his hingus n tahi mata can be, i oso dont mind. That was the good old time...all the sacrifices i made, i dont hv to mention.almost 2years of d happiest journey in my life.

things happened for so many reasons. he changed. he knew i love him with all my heart. but you know, when the wind started to blow left and right, things went wrong. totally. he started to avoid me d fact that 1-2 family members of him didnt favor me. They're not happy for us. I however nvr gv up, tried my best to win their heart but failed miserably coz ya, they're not so fond of moi. Pernah i waited until 8hours at gloria jeans just because he cant leave the house. When he showed up I cried for 10mins but ya, i'm all good in a bit. Until this one time he didnt picked up my call. After a week, i got to know dat d father was unconscious, in d hospital. i visited but was chased out. I didnt gv up, came again but no one talked to me.

Until the day his father passed away. Allah lebih menyayangi arwah yang saya sifatkan lelaki yg mempunyai hati yg sgt mulia, memahami, rasional dan ikhlas. Al-fatihah.

My life went upside down when 1-2 of d family members started throwing tantrums at me. Called me a bitch, slut, and even told me that saya ni sehina tikus di sampah. I was accused "u gave him passion, mislead him, make his studies fall n fall". No one stood up for me. But i still remembr, his late father did.thats y i respect him.

Worst, i was even accused sbg perempuan bawa sial who caused the late father's death. My heart shattered into pieces. Imagine, i was 19..late 18 like dat. i cant handle such accusation. i called him, the line was no longer avail. i went to his house, no one. i was all alone. yes, all alone. Lost. upset. broken hearted. Tell me how can i forgive him and everyone involved? Damage has been done. Allah Maha Adil.

Imagine, i quit my studies and stayed at home for a year.

Its easy for him to leave without a proper goodbye. But what he hd caused me? I wasted years of my education life. I am a qualified software engineer by now but i dropped out bcoz i was so depressed.

THIS IS LIFE.

But again, Allah knows what is best for me.

I am now a happy woman, working as an exec broadcast journalist and most importantly, i hv found a man who appreciates me for me.

A guy who appreciates me cooking, debating, singing, laughing out loud, making my stupid jokes and gestures all the time. Me who surprised him on every single occasion. And me who cries over small arguments.

He's not 6ft tall, he's not the hottest hunk, he's not romantic either. he comes from keluarga sederhana, he speaks broken english, and he's definitely not Einstein.

But this guy whom i'm in love with works his ass off for me, to make me happy, to buy me baju kurung on every hari raya, and beli telekung for a better me. This guy protects and stands up for me all the time. Sabar dgn kerenah i coz he said-- he knows it's all worth it. My love for him is beyond everything. When i love someone, the love is for real. My type-- hard to fall in love and hard to fall out of love. My love blossoms and grows every single second and will never stop growin, ever.And he certainly knows that.

He makes me happy. He layan me manja and he is manja equally. He respects my parents and dont mind sleeping at my living hall--snoring.He dont mind if i curik his nasi lemak's sambal n egg yolk tho he likes to eat em equally. He always think i'm pretty tho saya busuk tak mandi.He would sacrifice his sleep to drive me here n there. He even sacrifice watching his football team in action if i need his help.

This guy who never gives up loving me. Mind you, i'm a PISCES-- one loyal-loving-caring-artsy-bubbly babe but sensitive dan banyak kerenah.

Ya, its been 5years. We're getting married very soon and i hope our love will never end.

Sayang i love you...

You will forever be my garfield, my starfish, my asho, my cekodok, and whatever names i might call u as i wish. Haha U are my love.

TWH 3DAYS PROMO!!!

2011-09-05T12:46:00.001-07:00

HIGH TABLE:
- fresh flowers
- creative deco
- candles
- theme/color of customers' choice

and...

REGISTRATION TABLE:
- 1meter tall wishing tree in a pot
- flower deco
- mini wish tags + strings
- stationeries
- photobooth props including:
* various misai
* various lips
* various bubble wishes
* frames

**NO TRANSPORTATION FEE

All mentioned above at RM500!!!
Booking period: 7th-10th Sept 2011 ONLY
Event period: 1st Dec 2011 - 5th Feb 2011

email: theweddingheaven@yahoo.com

**only valid within klang valley
(within 30km radius from damansara - refer google maps direction). Transportation fee applies for 30km radius and above

MIDNIGHT LIGHTING

2011-09-05T07:19:00.000-07:00

in my wish list... :)

suka sangat

thank you

MISSX DIY: WISHING TREE

2011-09-02T04:10:00.000-07:00

hello hello!

i wish for a wishing tree.

maka saya ke floristika, yang ranting kayu cat putih RM30++, yang plastic kecik RM80++, yang besar sama tinggi ngn saya versi plastic RM100++.

mahal sungguh.

maka di kesempatan hari raya duduk kat rumah je... saya pun pegi mengutip ranting kering kat tanah org depan... ada org nak bina rumah kot depan rumah i ni, pokok besar itu ditebang... dan ranting2 nya harus lah banyak kan? cantik... sbb the twigs halus2 :)

so i bought a bottle of white spray dekat hardware and spray 4 wishing tree twigs.

dengan riang-gembiar sbb spray senang je :)

hasilnya sama jek yg jual kat floristika... kalau i beli 4 twigs harus RM30 x 4 = RM120 kan?

DIY:---

white spray: RM6.50

ranting: free

TOTAL COST = RM6.50

tenaga missX: kalau kira peluh, tak sampai 5ringgit pun... haha

happy tak??? so apa lagi, diy la! daptkan twigs dengan effect winter sonata anda hari ini!

I THINK I LOOK SLIMMER ;)

2011-09-01T08:45:00.000-07:00

dah sebulan pakai pb.... berat turun 3kg... nasi tetap makan lagik, but small portion la kan?but anyway, tahun ni i beranikan diri....sarung baju raya warna pastel yellow ok?!

if not tiap tahun i pakai black sbb rendah diri takut nak seketul!pakai soft yellow doesnt make any slimmer either , what more soft color mmg buat kita nampak lagi gemok kan? I ni size12 uols….although i tak nampak skinny, but i look thinner and curvy uols!

Look at the picture dan ingatlah, I ni seorang gergasi size12 dengan berat 66kg ye?And fyi, insan gergasi macam I sepatutnya elak warna pastel so I wont look any gergasi-er kan ?

The hell…. I sarung beautiful and yakin pakai PASTEL YELLOW uols! Sebagai trial sbb nanti kahwin kena sarung white jugak kan? lihat gambar di bawah... tak kurus pun, but definitely happy sbb tak nampak selambak! *joget2*

So I personally think I look slimmer J Ye ke idak?

ya, sayalah si pastel yellow yang yakin itu :)

SNIPPET: NIKAH & RECEPTION INSPIRATION

2011-09-01T02:26:00.001-07:00

NIKAH: Orchids Vintage Charm

theme by myself.

im saying goodbye to roses this time.

inspired by the yellow wild orchids.

and my choice of orchids--- the wild orchids.

and the old english aka vintage charm theme is definitely inspired by the venue itself.

it's gonna be a small-intimate ceremony.

so mini posies of flowers will do...

i hope it turns out well :)

***

RECEPTION: Midnight Cherry Blossom

i'm sooo in love with cherry blossom.

and definitely inspired to have the pink version.

.... and additional of blue decor to spice up the full bloom cherry blossom during midnight.

i can't imagien the outcome but working on it.

definitely with help of the creative decorator.

a small event too.

like i always wanted-- let it be small but beautiful.

insyaAllah....

CHECKLIST UPDATE!

2011-08-31T23:39:00.001-07:00

Nikah:
Date- done
Venue - done
Food - done
Attire - done
Makeup - done
Deco - consider done
Hantaran - done
Photographer - done
Videographer - consider done
Invitation - tbc
Favors - done
Henna - tbc
Candy buffet - consider done
Legal docs - will do soon! Boleh? Hahaha

Reception:
Date - done
Venue - done
Food - done
Attire - done
Makeup - done
Deco - done
Photographer - done
Videographer - consider done
Invitation - done
Favors - tbc
Henna - tbc
Candy buffet - consider done

Emcee - done
Alhamdulillah
Hampir semua selesai...

small and humble majlis. Doakan semua berjalan lancar ye?

CANDY BUFFET - RAYA PROMO!!!

2011-08-30T03:58:00.000-07:00

candy buffet at RM400???

checkout : http:// theweddingheaven.blogspot.com

booking period : 1st Sept- 15th Sept ONLY!

A FRIEND WHO DONT APPRECIATE

2011-08-27T20:52:00.001-07:00

A friend of mine texted me she cant come to my wedding sbb cuti tak cukup. my wedding is on friday, but it is only one day... my big day bukan srkali setahun pun, sekali seumur hidup. But well she said tak cukup cuti.

she's getting married this year too, but i mmg spare cuti for my fren's wedding. drpd 21days leave, cuti raya i korbankan 5hari utk kwn i, tahun ni hari raya bekerja sampai raya ke 4. Lepas tu cuti dua hari je, then kerja mcm normal balik. Takpela, i tak harap pun org lakukan perkara sama utk i.

Cuti i spare utk kwn, sbb i fhm bukan senang nk buat everything sorg2...bila kawan kawin, kita bukan sekadar attend-- spesis i ni excited nak tolong and share info-- tolong agkt dulang, nk help apa2 la. Ikat riben ke, rsvp ke, registration ke.

Tapi i taktau kenapa kawan i sorg ni boleh ckp tak cukup cuti. takkan satu hari pon tak boleh spare for me? takpe la, i pun tak penting pada dia. sbb tu org ckp... bukan smua kwn boleh susah senang sama2.

saya sedih tp taktau nak luahkan mcmana. Mungkin belom tiba masa dia lagi, Dia belom rasa lg perasaan any of her friend, vendor, and what not withdraw from that spevial occasion. Its ok. I byk lg kawan. And her place utk agkt dulang has been replaced. And so does her place in my heart, has dissapeared the day she said tak cukup cuti for my wedding.

Jasa saya sikit sebanyak selama ni tak perlulah saya ungkit sbb dia mmg tak pernah acknowledge pun. Cita2 dia pun dah tercapai. Harap dia happy. Tu je.

BAJU KURUNG LYCRA ORDER!

2011-08-26T01:15:00.001-07:00

hello

1) kepada yang dah order dari luar KL, stockist dah post ye? katanya akan sampai isnin ni. kepada yang order within KL, saya akan deliver by hand.

2) kepada yang nak order--- order akan dibuka balik 10sept. jadi jangan email skrg ye? 10sept baru start email.

THANK YOU

THANK YOU ALL READERS!

2011-08-24T10:15:00.001-07:00

I was browing my blog when sedar sidebar followers i mencecah 400. Alhamdulillah.
Thank you sooooo much sebab sudi baca my humble blog. Thank you sgt. Terharu.
Anyway, menyambut genapnya 400 followers, sila beritahu saya apa yang anda suka baca:
1) fashion designers
2) persiapan MissX
3) decorator and pelamin
4) diy and budget
5) vendors spy
6) lain2 (sila nyatakan)

Let me know! So i can serve u entries u love and supply with sufficient info. All followers yg appreciate my blog jgn lupa click nuff special ads ya? ^_*

You know i love you!

*sloppy kisses*

WEDDING DRESS by LENG LAGENDA

2011-08-23T08:16:00.000-07:00

while everyone went wow-aw-wow admiring the bride's pretty indie-purple-deco on her big day.... i was eyeing for something else---- the baju!

i was so curious

so dengan muka tak malu---

i personally asked the beautiful bride after i was 88x mesmerized by her beautiful nikah attire.

and lucky me, the gorgeous natasha is so kind to share the lady behind the jaw-dropping dress.

photos captured by fad manaf.

and the beautiful dress is definitely by Leng!

how can i not love Leng?

i believe my taste.

i seriously think the dress is soooooo pretty!

what say u?

i think u all have to agree with me ;)

*look at the pearl beadwork. i love it so much!*

*sexy back! almost simillar like how i wanted--- i panggil v-back haha*

* awww the beautiful veil. and pls pay attention to lengan baju and petite scallops boat neck*

* the whole look you! the pretty dress on pretty natasha*

tell me you love the dress

i made the right decision kan?

ha-ha

LAGENDA by LENG

2011-08-20T22:30:00.001-07:00

Omygod peepsssss
I've done a lil research here n there.
Ok, in lagenda there are 3designers.
Leng is designer cum crqtibe director.
Oscar and rizal are the sub designers.
So i've seen hasil kerja by the three.
And dari kaca mata saya, kalau ikut taste saya....
I prefer leng's designs!
Hahaha she's very open minded and yes, met her!
Her sketch sgt lovely! She made three sketches from the photos i took dr Mr. Google :p
oh oh dia lukis sebijik la kan? (hope hasil pun sebijik) hahahaha
all the 3sketches tak lari dari idea asal i.
Anddd everytime i tak confident dgn diri i, i'll ask her? What do you think?
Dia akan jawab "i might think the opposite but its ur wedding! U know what u want!" suka kan??
Then i complaint i'm fat every 5minutes... Leng akan ckp "positive.positive!"
then i told her, "i hope i'll lose weight by then"
And... She said "not hope, but u must!"
Omygodddd she's so kind and positive!
Cant tell which baju of mine leng akan buat, nantikan ya? I love all of youuuuuu

ORDER CLOSED!!

2011-08-18T10:15:00.001-07:00

Order for kaftan n kurung is officially closed at 5pm, 18.8.11 No more payment or order. No more.

However, whoever wish to order after raya can start order within 1-7 september. And will receive item 15.9.11 :) same wholesale price :) love

LAST PAYMENT!!!

2011-08-16T08:50:00.001-07:00

Final payment for baju kurung n kaftan this 18th august 2011!!! Missx jual harga wholesaler rm150. Boutique selling rm250. The lace lab pun jual rm280 uols! Same items. Grab em fast! A few pcs last piece! Color might be one tone diff than real color, since we hv diff pc color resolution at home.

SYOMIR IZWA (lacey wedding dress)

2011-08-16T02:36:00.000-07:00

*this gorgeous piece, by syomir*

Hey girls,
i personally think syomir izwa is one of the best --- dealing with wedding attire using lace as fabric.
so i contacted him a few days back, and received his reply yesterday.
he's now famous.
harga pun dah naik.
baju nikah starts from RM2k, and baju reception starts from RM2.5
notice the phrase 'starts from'...
(korang dapat the same quote ke? or i je yg dapat harga macamni.)

terkejut jugak sbb i told him i bought and will bring my own kain.
i remember last year, he quoted me RM1.5 for baju nikah and RM1.8k for reception dress.
ye la, nama dah naik, banyak celebrity hire dia. so he has to put a benchmark.
certain price that suits his branding.

no doubt he's one of the best in dealing with lace. kan?
hasil kerja dia sangat cantik.
cuma, brides yang pernah hire dia.. a few ckp syomir terlalu busy.
so mind you, ada kemungkinan baju siap lambat.
ada kemungkinan juga on ur wedding day baru dapat ur wedding baju.
but if you totally admire his work, why not kan?
mmg superb la.

***
BUT.... on another hand, there's this one upcoming designer.
it's Lagenda:-- ada dua designer Oscar and Leng.
but i dont know they are two different entities or what.
but yang pasti dorg berada di bawah satu boutique.
(can someone please tell me, if kita tempah kat Oscar sama je ke kalau jumpa Leng? or dorg lain2 charge, client masing-masing?)

but hell yeah, they're sooo good with lace.
setakat yang saya tengok, baju terletak, lace jugak cantik.
and surprisingly they're so friendly. sangat.
... psttt i heard dorg ni boleh ikut sebijik design apa kita nak.
they're not fussy and mendengar cakap client dengan baik.
sbb afterall cantik di mata designer tak semestinya cantik mata client kan?
anyone heard of Lagenda, please share! :)

Love, Hugs & Kisses

BAJU KURUNG RAYA COLLECTION (LIMITED!!!)

2011-08-12T11:47:00.000-07:00

Bila dah pakai. cantik kan??? sexy!!!

BK1:salmon pink

BK2: romantic peach

BK3: pale plum

BK4: misty grey

BK5: darker tiffany

BK6: amber green

also available in BLACK

each color ada 3pcs only!!! grab them fast!!!

lycra baju kurung available in size S, M, L

kain sejuk dan tak jarang

cutting besar, so tak sesuai untuk yang mempunyai saiz pinggan 25 inches ke bawah

unless plan nak alter sendiri :)

RM150 only!!!

harga boutique RM250

all kaftan, labuh = 56 inches

Size S

waist- 26-28 inches

Size M

waist- 29-31 inches

Size L

waist- 32-36 inches

order before: 18th august 2011. no reservation.

all payment to made before 20th august 2011

email: whpisy@yahoo.com

KAFTAN RAYA COLLECTION (LIMITED!!!)

2011-08-12T11:27:00.000-07:00

K1: rusty blue

K2: sky blue

K3: salmon pink

K4: sweet peach

K5: old mustard

K6: dusty plum

K7: dirty green

K8: corn yellow

also available in BLACK

each colour ada 3pcs ONLy!!! so grab them fast!

lycra kaftan available in size S, M, L.

kain sejuk dan tak jarang.

cutting besar so tak sesuai untuk yang mempunyai saiz pinggang 25inches ke bawah.

unless plan nak alter sendiri :)

RM150 only!!!

harga boutique RM250

all kaftan, labuh = 56 inches

Size S

waist- 26-28 inches

Size M

waist- 29-31 inches

Size L

waist- 32-36 inches

order before: 18th August 2011, no reservation.

all payment to be made before 20th August 2011.

email: whpisy@yahoo.com

I LOST WEIGHT!!!

2011-08-12T10:42:00.001-07:00

I lost 2kg!!!
baru timbang kejap tadi.
hahaha

1) bulan puasa, berbuka makan apa sahaja kecuali nasi; menu pilihan--- ayam percik, popia utara, honey chicken wings :) --tolak tepi calories, asalkan protein in small portion, no carbs---
2) kuasa corset beautiful everyday! seluar tahun lepas dah muat!
3) nak kata exercise, takdelah sgt... Gym last week pegi 2kali jek
4) penat siapkan tempahan raya, tak cukup tido haha
5) makan yogurt and minum air green tea lime EVERYDAY

saya harus terus usaha sampai turun 10kg! 3months to go ya'll!

DECORATOR FAMOUS SABO BRIDE2BE!

2011-08-10T03:57:00.000-07:00

**entry ini di print screen from my fb. tanpa sebarang edit. 100% kiriman seorang b2b yang mahu saya share dengan semua b2b di sini. dan kepada vendor, ini sebagai pengajaran**

=sambung. sorry crop tak sama size==

so, bride-to-be what do you think? if kita di tempat aliah ali, mesti kita pun marah kan?

PELUKIS INAI TAK PROFESSIONAL!!

2011-08-08T06:04:00.001-07:00

Rezekinya sikit sebanyak datang dari blogger.
After one of d bloggers wrote good review about her artwork.
so masa tu saya rasa rezekinya mencurah kerana other bloggers start to notice her artwork.

But too bad, sbb tu orang kata-- melayu ni pandai berniaga tapi tak pandai maintain perniagaan.

Seriously, every single bride who's looking for henna artist majoriti akan cari dia kerana superb review oleh one of the famous wedding bloggers.

But hari ni dah masuk email ke-2 i dapat drpd bride mengadu masalah si polan.

Kes 1: blogger mengadu si polan kekwat. Blogger berseloroh tanya kalau boleh diskaun sikit... Si polan boleh jawab, kalau u rasa mahal tak payah la amik i.

Kes 2: sehari sebelum perkahwinan blogger ni, si blogger call si polan utk remind about berinai the next day. si polan boleh ckp dia takde transport so takleh datang. Last minute ok???! What the heck??? At least paling busuk pun bgtau la one week before! Anddddd duit dah bank in kot!

I slalu je tgk makeup artist naik cab dtg rumah pengantin. Talde masalah pun. Awak tu pelukis inai, bukannya buat pelamin ke, candy buffet ke yang perlu angkat banyak barang!

So mendengar masalah ni, i cuba la siasat. Kelakar jugak ada org nak business, tapi mcm taknak business. 4kali i email, isi form bagai dkt blog dia bagai....Sekali pun tak reply! Not even once!

Seriously babe, bloggers put high hope and look upon ur hasil kerja kerana they believe ur talented dek review baik drpd blogger yg pernah jd client u, but if u keep doing this... baik jgn business. Seriously. Tuhan bagi laluan awak cari rezeki, tapi awak tutup rezeki awak sendiri.

Ps: perkahwinan ni besar maknanya apatah lagi bagi bride yang mengharap, yang ada expectation. Jgnlah hancurkan harapan seorang pengantin dgn alasan yg tak profesional. Ambil ikibar ya?

I'M UPSET

2011-08-06T04:15:00.001-07:00

I'm seriously Upset. Sad. Dissappointed. Unhappy. Stress. I need a break.

HANTARAN DECORATOR!

2011-08-05T09:47:00.000-07:00

heyya babes, wonder who did these beautiful dulang deco?

-mukadimah-
we all want our hantaran to be pretty right?

20 years back, makcik2 tolong buat sehari before majlis.

but nowadays, sudah jadi trend we hire a particular person who is talented when dealing with flowers--- to be held responsible for our hantaran deco.

-hakikatnya-

the cost for 11 berbalas 9 sebagai contoh, might cost ur pelamin!

yerp. rata-rata dulang decorator sekarang charge RM120- RM250 for full fresh flowers!

some can go real absurd, berangan apa ntah, charge RM450 per dulang! apa gila? pakai emas 916 ke??!

here's some calculation: lets say, kita amik.... 11 berbalas 9 = 20 trays in total.

1) if dulang decorator charge RM450 per dulang, 20 trays = RM9000!!! (gila apa? harga one whole majlis nikah)

2) if dulang decorator charge RM250 per dulang, 20 trays = RM5000! (harga pelamin?)

3) if dulang decorator charge RM120 per dulang, 20 trays = RM2400 (masih mahal, but kalau mmg superb cantik gila cannot tahan... go for it :) )

but to me, dulang deco ni......

1) pakai fresh flowers (layu dibuang jugak)

2) kena pulang dulang and perkakasannya bagai

3) hujungnya, yang jadi milik kita barang yangkita beli pakai duit sendiri je.... :)

betul tak?

maka, i personally think if u want to invest on beautiful dulang deco, it's appropriate to go Rm100 per dulang or less. i found mine! have u found yours?

my dulang decorator is KAK NUWOO!

yerp! visit her: nuwoo.blogspot.com

search fb: nuwoo gift ideas

if u think RM100 is rather expensive, ask for RM90--- tell her yuyu missx yg reccomend :)

ps: pandai-pandai lah korang nego, budget yg korang bagi tu jangan rendah sangat kalau nak bunga luxurious seperti di atas. but guarantee superb. i've met her in person. kak nuwoo is very very passionate! true flowers lover! :)

GREATEST WEDDING CORSET !!!

2011-08-05T00:28:00.000-07:00

*mind you, i'm not an agent. i'm a customer. so don't ask anything technical :)*

alrite! i received my bundle of joy yesterday!

.....posted by the most efficient agent, dura! in 3 days je dia dah post!

mmg sangat gigih ok?! i sgt happy joget-joget when i received the parcel!

the 3 packs, long bra, waist bengkung and girdle. total RM22xx.... but please contact dura for special price if u're paying by cash!!! only Rm19xx. seriously! 200-300 means a lot kan??

ini minuman supaya cepat kurus! amalkan! :) nak basuh corset ni pun ada sabun khas, tapi dah dalam toilet... lupa snap :)

so, this is the beautiful corset. sexy sgt sgt. confident i memakainya walalupun utk diri sendiri jek tengok ;p omygoddd lemak2 terkeluar dekat tali bra tu semua masuk padat ok? not even a fatty flesh. pakai baju pun nampak kemas je bahagian top i!

yang ni paling magic!!! my favourite out of all 3! hahahah kalau amalkan jadi pinggang kerengga la i lepas ni. anyway, kepada yang tak smpat nak pakai 3-4 bulan.... beli sehari before majlis pun takpe. guess what, instantly after i pakai terus drop sizes ok? pinggang daripada 81cm terus jadik 74cm!! 2inci tu uolsssss. it makes a lot of difference kan?

the prettiest girdle. one thing i love about pb, semua lace dia kemas and high quality. so from the inside pun i rasa sexy! *feeling*

ok, mari saya cerita my first day--- of 8hours wearing pb.

i swear it's magical.

i dont even suffocate. selesa. rasa mantap n kemas je perut i.

and unlikee other corset, takde satu dawai pun mencucuk i. smooth jek.

paling i suke. sbb pinggang terus obvious nampak ramping.

it's worth every single cent i tell u!

it's such a waste if u invest on 3-4k designer dress but having ur bulging fats and perut buncit.

we need a magical corsett like premium beautiful to compliment your pretty designer's dress.

betul tak? kalau corsett superb, pakai baju terus nampak superb!

kalau baju superb tapi perut buncit, apa gunanya kan?

now i know why some ladies invested a lot in buying corsets. u should!

weeeehoooooo will update on my diet.

fyi, i stop eating rice dah beberapa hari.

banyakkan minum air kosong.

and gym in progress!

doakan saya kurussssssssssssssss! :) hugs and many many hugs!

FASHION DESIGNER - LACE

2011-08-04T10:36:00.001-07:00

*akhirnya berjaya upload. print screen from iphone uols!*

*inilah yang saya maksudkan, soft french lace terletak je atas kulit*

Like seriously, i start to worry about my reception dress. And worse, i dont trust anyone. But i know i havto decide on a designer n go with it.

I need to wear my dress, the one and only, how i wanted it to be. I dont want a designer who try to convince me on his particular design n change my decision. I want a designer who i give design, says ok, and execute. Do it well. And too bad i dont have tons of cash in a sack for a dress! If not i would've go see rizalman ibrahim. Jk.

Anyhow, i have all the materials--- lace n chiffon. So i only need workmanship that works magic for my dream dress! Can someone help me? Hello~~~~

I know u girls must ve done a lot of research.., so from ur observation, who's good with lace and chiffon? .... And that particular designer wont change our idea of a dream dress? ....im not sure what am i talking about but pls help me!

DIY MEJA NIKAH!!!

2011-08-04T04:16:00.001-07:00

Ok,
My fiance is not a carpenter.
But he is now!
I drew him a sketch of small meja nikah i wanted.
so he bought kayu and cermin.
And also electronic cutter over rm500 hengget!
tepuk dahi i.
Beli meja siap pun 200-300 ringgit je kot.
Takpelah, kenangan diy.

So meja nikah tu, i nak cermin kat atas.
Kat tepi i nak kosong je, warna putih.
Boleh imagine tak? Hahhaha i pun taktau apa i ckp.

Lihat sketch saya di fb! Search: yuyu missx

Iphone blogger software takboleh upload gambar. Choy tau!

THE WEDDING DRAMA??

2011-08-04T01:35:00.001-07:00

Hye people!
Ok i dont hv any wedding drama to share.
Everything is smooth sailing, alhamdulillah.

However, here are some mini drama series i managed to think of and share with u! Hahaha ada jugak kan dramanye? ;p

1) THE DRESS MAKER
- i wanted this designer to do my w-dress. (loyal readers, i bet u know who). But after the incident happened to my bff, i feel like not going to do my dress with him erk them? sbb my friend ada this one design she has in mind. But.... Designer insisted to ikut his way, not my friend's way. So dah misscom coz.... how can a designer say no to a bridezilla dress requests, aint it? Hurmmmm y it affects me? Because myself has only ONE design in particular. Thats d dress i wanted since high school. How can someone tell me it cant be done??? So whats the drama peeps? Guess what, wedding is 4months away and i have not send my reception kain to anyone. Great! (baju nikah dah settle, alhamdulillah)

2) THE PLACE I WANNA GET MARRIED
Alright, last year we came to this conclusion of having nikah n reception at d same venue, C. But however a mutual friend got married last month and i kinda not fancy d nikah venue. Its rather plain and... Ya, plain. I want a homey ambience tho i dont feel like doing nikah at home coz i pity my family members who hv to do lots of lifting (mcm waktu tunang dulu)... So my sweetest bonda agreed to d idea of holding my solemnization ceremony at my dream place that dont need pelamin uols---- and which i never dare to voice out pun. Mind u, my Dr. Bonda dah pencen in May and now she's a Lecturer Bonda so she stays at home most of d time with Mr. Google! How IT literate my bonda is :) I swear my jantung joget-joget when she said d venue thingy but i dont want to b excited much and end up w dissapointment. So leave it to Allah swt. He knows whats best for me.

3) THE COLOUR PROBBY
We all the bridezillas wantd to hv our wedding with some colors (we wanted) kan? So i hv 2 colors, eh 3colors, eh mix colors. Ok, thats our prob. When we do lots of research we tend to bumped into pretty real weddings with def pretty colors! So fickle minded. But anyhow im down with 3 now and dont want to change anymore but choppppp my future in laws visited us last month to discuss about one-two matts. And guess wut, one of the two is color!!! fmil had her own color choice (which i dont like. Ok, i like d colors but i dont like d fact someone changing MY color decision. Ok selfish alert). But girlssssss come on! Its our wedding and all we wantd is to pick our own colors that we think look best in photos, kan?.... Oh give the poor bride some space pls.....~ :( Ok i suffocated during the discussion. I swear, i was!!! I wanted futureIL to wear grey on my nikah day. But.... They refused! They wanted to wear grey utk bertandang as d host. Come on! They have january2012 kot! They still hv time to change, kan? So i promised myself to be honest and i said NO. Erkkkk. Yes, i did. they're ok with it (i think...) Thanks to my fiance's abah! He's d best!

But that's not it, d week after bonda ceramah me. To let his parents do their way. So i felt guilty. .....and willing to sacrifice my color. I made a phone call and told fiance to tell his parents they can proceed with whatever color they wanted for nikah which yellow was their initial plan. Or was it green? (see, i was not listening during d discussion. Selfish kan?) but itulah, semua dipermudahkan. His parents bought the kain already. They're d sweetest! I swear.

Three dramas for now. Will update more (hope not another ha-ha-ha)

Sloppy kisses babes! Mwachycks!

PLEASE VISIT MY FACEBOOK :)

2011-08-02T04:54:00.000-07:00

hello girls,

i finally created another facebook account to ease interaction between us.

sorry sangat cant approve dekat personal acc sbb banyak work related contact.

no worries, some personal updates on this account too!

so shall u have any inquiries, MissX has a facebook!

please visit and add my humble facebook to ur list.

search: yuyu missx

email: missxyuyu@yahoo.com (jangan email kat yg ini, yg ini utk tujuan search fb je)

any inquiries tulis dekat my wall or pm me or mail me at whpisy@yahoo.com

love, love and love

GOOD DAY,GOOD NEWS!!!

2011-08-02T01:32:00.001-07:00

I'm blessed to have a supportive family and fiance who understands me for me.
And definitely His belssings.
Today is such a good day for me.
Ya, with loads of good news
Alhamduliilah.
Alhamdulillah.
Alhamdulillah.

1) venue for reception dah confirmed since last year. And today, nikah venue is confirmed too. :) scored. Alhamdulillah.

2) cards are ready ya'll. And they're all so pretty. Alhamdulillah.

3) i met a specialist dermatologist who can help me lessen eczema scars i have on my right foot. Alhamdulillah.

4) bought some deco for diy stuff. Lots of findings. Alhamdulillah

5) bought telekung, sejadah and al-quran for our new life chapter. Alhamdulillah.

6) it's ramadhan people. I'm blessed. Alhamdulillah.

Doakan semua berjalan lancar ya?

COOKIES PAYMENT

2011-07-31T12:54:00.001-07:00

Just a quick announcent:
All payment for cookies collection on 14/15th august and 24/25th august must be made before 5th august. Strictly 5th AUGUST as the last date to submit payment. Fail to do so, order will b invalid . Any payment made 6th august onwards ( yg tiba2 masuk without informing me) tidak akan dilayan n duit will be returned. Thank you.

BLOGGER: CIK YAYA & CIK MIMIE

2011-07-28T10:35:00.000-07:00

alritey love,

i asked for their permission to write things that caught my eyes!!!

let me start with cik yaya!

omygodddddddddddd her dress is the 'it' wedding dress of the year!

i swear this is the prettiest i've seen in 2011.

what more, si pemakai pun cantik sangat sangat.

her dress is dusty pink.

made by qudyn.

and ya, her makeup is soooooooooooo gorgeous! (mungkin faktor tuannya cantik banyak membantu makeup nampak cantik juga) hehe

i know u girls have to agree with me, kan???

her oh-so-pretty dress!!!

to-die-for flawless skin & make-up!

and now, the most creative invitation of 2011 setakat ni!

the award goes to cik syamimie karim and kudos to her brother who designed the card!

mimi is such a sweetheart.

majlis tunang adik dia dekat temerloh, so she said just incase i tak dapat datang she gave me athe card n gift in advance! untung kan jadi blogger?

sangat baik mimie ni! i love u lah!

ok the custom notebook, my nephews dah contong (cepat je tangan dia kan?!)

but omygodddddddddddd who can not go mad looking at the e-invitation!

theme is vintage engagement! so detail!

and what i love the most, how they tell the guests of color codes in a very subtle way!

great idea!!!

nak tahu lanjut, silalah bertanya kepada Syamimie Karim !

sangat classic kan? and i love the choice of various fonts used!

i swear sangat creative!!!

this one caught my sepet eyes! colour codesssss. hebat!

ok, sebelum terlambat, promote sikit a few order minggu ni :)

cupcakes! pink +purple. thank you deena!!!

macarons! lavender+oreo! thank you mawar!!!

macarons lagi! caramel+choc ganache!!! thank you farah!

email me: whpisy@yahoo.com

SAYANG SEMUA!!! kiss busuk-busuk! muahhhhhycks! *hugs*

-off to jakarta and bandung in a few hours-

love

GEMUKNYA DIA!!!

2011-07-27T12:22:00.001-07:00

Omygod i rasa itula yang dibisikkan kwn2 yg kepochi setelah sekian lama tak jumpa i.

Smlm i mintak tailor ukur a few parts of my body and guess wut??? Pinggang i 31inches??? I ckp ngn dia ukur ngam2, she said 81cm.

Selama ni pakai seluar,sampai sekarang waist 28 or 29 inches. atau uk10 or uk12 ikut design. Napa ukur 31inchessss??? Ke mmg saiz seluar n ukuran different? Tambah risau ni!

Corsett kuuuu pls do magic!

I dah hantar kain to designer, tapi tak ukur lagi sbb mmg niat nak diet. I told designer, ukur september nanti... So pls pls pls waktu designer ukur, keciklah pinggang i!

Fitting bulan 10 n bulan 11--- mintak2 pinggang 26-27inches jek.

Tolongggggggg :(

DIET DAN PREMIUM BEAUTIFUL!!

2011-07-26T07:28:00.001-07:00

Ok,
I was shocked when i stepped on the scale 3days back! I weighed myself, 6kg heavier compared to dec 2010!
I weigh 9kg heavier compared to dec 2009!!!
And guess wut, i weigh 12kg heavier compared to 2008!!

U all the maths!
Total weight gained---12kg :(
I know, i know. Sad aint it.
What more w-day is only 4months away.
Eh chopppp 3.5months je tinggal!!!
And im still fat :( ya, like seriously.

On a positive note, i stopped eating rice after dat tragic self-weighing.
And.... Tengah terpengaruh nak try premium beautiful,pb.
Tapi mahal betooolllll
Tapi semua perempuan yang cuba mesti kurus. Taktau apa magicnya.
But that probably best explains why pb is expensive kan?

Cuma satu je, org kata kalau pakai pb kena disiplin. Kena pakai everyday. Minum air byk2. My friend dura fits size M on her big-day bcoz of pb. So she highly reccomend me to try. She's soooo nice and very supportive!

So why not i giv it a try kan? Will update progress! Bersemangat!!!

Ps: oh pls support me girls! Love love love

PICK YOUR FAVOURITE COOKIES!

2011-07-24T22:59:00.000-07:00

hello darlings! thanks for those who ordered first batch 20/21st July pickup! it was such a wonderful time baking for u girls! 38 jars of choc chips alone tak masuk other types of cookies lagi. 2nd batch this coming 27/28 July dah full with 80jars. so i stopped taking orders for 2nd batch since 2days back. thank you very very much.

anyway, i'm opening for third batch uols! booked-- 52jars, so vacant lagi 28jars to those who wanted to order! perfect as gifts when visit sanak-sedara, kawan-kawan waktu raya. coz all tall jars come with ribbons! :)

THIRD BATCH collection date: 14th & 15th AUGUST 2011

FINAL BATCH collection date: 24th AUGUST 2011 (to those yang takut cookies abis tak sempat raya)

slot in ur order in one of these, mail me at whpisy@yahoo.com

order via mail, do not comment here to order.

***to those who placed order for 2nd,3rd and final batch, bayar ikut this pricing below. changed jars... so price ikut jars baru! yang dalam papercups semua kurang RM2. love.***

FIRST BATCH haritu! thank you all!!!

choc chip cookies RM10 per jar! 45-50pcs

made: choc chip, brown sugar, tatura butter, premium flour

rainbow cookis RM12 per jar! 30-35pcs

made: choc chip, tatura butter, smarties

havana cookies RM10 per jar! 16pcs

made: nestum, oat, almond, premium choc fully dipped, choc rice

london almond rm10 per jar! 16pcs

made: premium choc fully dipped, whole almond inside, almond nibs

truffles rm10 per jar! 16pcs

made: almond slice, sunflower seed, croqueant, rice bubbles--all dipped in choc!

diva happy pills rm12 per jar! 23-25pcs

made: blueberry colatta, walnut, dipped in colatta!

TWH french macarons!!!

24pcs RM72 (pick 2 flavors)

36pcs RM105 (pick 3 flavors)

- sberries (ivory)

-oreo (grey)

-lavender (purple)

-vanilla (green)

-passionfruit (orangey-yellow)

-coffee (brown mix)

-choc ganache (pink)

KAD KAHWIN SAYA!!! yippie!

2011-07-24T03:32:00.000-07:00

lupa nak ceritaaaa--received real mock-up via courier on 30th June!

i ordered 30th May!

So, they kept their promise to finalize everything in one month!

ngam-ngam... :)

well-packed.

salute!

the cards prototypes. yay!

*fax this back, as approval for them to start printing :0)

Dococard is the best!

i'm a satisfied client!

it's true wut bonda said, they definitely deliver a great service if we pay a sum of money kan?

yikes! serious tak menyesal walaupun mula-mula nya rasa macam membazir je kan?

kenapa?

they are on time as promised when we decided to hire them:

- perjumpaan pertama 30 May 2011

- received 1st draft: 7 days after meet up-- it's a computer drawing. she asked me to let her know a few colours for the samples. so i told her pink, blue, silver, brown.

- received 2nd draft: 2weeks later, a mock-up of the card that she has in her workshop.

- received final draft (photos above): 30 june 2011! haha maksudnya, tepat satu bulan seperti yang dijanjikan :) the real thing, card mock-up sampai kat rumah i! she gave me colours requested---pink, blue, silver, brown... supaya i boleh judge sendiri, by feeling and holdind the cards myself. haha mula2 nak sangat pink: but bila tengok live mmg biru lagi cantik. so.... i really really appreciate them sending the sample via courier! sample envelope pun dia bagi... gila tak happy?! ;)

ALL that without any extra cost! semua dah termasuk apa yang i bayar. so i kira, service tu lets say around RM200-- design, protoype, courier, etc... maksudnya mungkin kad i jatuh dalam Rm5-6 je sebenarnya... betul tak? the rest rupiah is for the service. oh I LOVE DOCOCARDS!

so, kerana saya happy, saya offer untuk bayar the balance kerana ada rezeki cookies & macarons; ringankan beban bonda saya... sweet tak dapat daughter macam i? hahaha

i can't wait to collect all cards this coming July 29th!

yerp in 5days time, i'll go jkt again! love love love.

love korang jugak yang support beli cookies and macarons saya! yerp u girls did contribute!

*if any of u tak buat card lagi and looking forward to tempah in jkt, do consider dococards.

price range is RM2-RM20

but again, look at their service... puas hati.

and the best thing, selesa.

tak payah bersusah-payah ke pasar tebet.

(mak saya sakit lutut. so have to consider her condition)

MY MACARONS!

2011-07-22T03:59:00.000-07:00

*photo credit to liana noordin*

thank you for the beautiful photos!

email: whpisy@yahoo.com

MACARONS

2011-07-21T20:49:00.001-07:00

Oh i change packaging beli kotak yg nmpk dlm...
tapi kotak tu takde size yg ngam2.

Maka, i dah finalize. skrg macs dijual dlm 2saiz.
24pcs rm72 (2flavors)
36pcs rm105 (3flavors)

Kalau nak lain drpd kedai/vendor lain? Pls try;
Oreo macs
vanila macs
Sberries macs
coffee macs
lavender macs

Yg classic:
Choc ganache

I gerenti mine sedap and BESAR. Nak testi yg mana sedap, yg mana tak sedap. tanya blogger, dia 1st time try smlm :) liananoordin.blogspot.com hahaha

RAYA ORDER (im on hiatus!)

2011-07-20T13:08:00.001-07:00

Phewwwww harini berjaya siapkan 38jars choc chip, 10jars havana cookies, 8jars diva happy pills, 6jars london almond, 6 jars rainbow cookies, and 5jars truffles!!! Andddd 120macarons!

Sakit badan. Apapun missX berterima kasih kpd readers setia and silent yg sudi order. Terima kasih bagi rezeki kawen kpd missx yg sampai sakit pinggang siapkan cookies. Appointment ngn designer pun i cancel demi menyiapkan order....Timer kasih byk2!

Order first week puasa dah full, kalau nak order, next collection 2nd week puasa; buleh collect order 13th/14th august. Collect kat ttdi/damansara. Again, terima kasih byk2 semua.

Love u ols!!!

Ps: will upload pictures soonnnnnm ;)

RECEPTION CHECKLIST! Yeay!

2011-07-19T12:10:00.001-07:00

theme: done
venue: done
food: done
makeup: done
attire: tbc
shoes: done
attire pengapit: done
henna: kindly suggest
pelamin: done
handbouquet: done
lighting: tbc
invitations: done
favors: tbc
photographer: done
videographer: done
entertainment: done
songs selection: done
emcee: done
cake: tbc
deco:-
- guestbook/registration: tbc
- photobooth: tbc
- welcome signage: tbc
- photos: tbc
- candy buffet: done

Ok tu je. To me, sbnrnya organizing reception lg mudah drpd nikah...

MASALAH DEWAN !

2011-07-16T19:04:00.000-07:00

* inilah dewan untuk majlis bertandang. cantik kan?

good morning!

awal saya ber-blog today.

lupa nak cerita tentang problem dewan yang saya dapat tahu last week.

di sebelah saya, nikah and reception Alhamdulillah tiada masalah.

segala duit bonus telah dikumpul untuk tidak membebankan parents.

nak tolong la mana patut walaupun tak sebanyak mana.

anyway, nak cerita tentang dewan di sebelah pihak lelaki.

his father dapat panggilan from dewan management...

pada tarikh majlis bertandang, dewan itu akan digunakan untuk satu majlis yang mana Sultan Johor akan berangkat mencemar duli.

Maka, tarikh itu tak boleh digunakan.

orang dewan mintak maaf and mintak tukar tarikh.

malangnya, bthe same month and the next month pun full sgt sgt.

so nampak gaya majlis bertandang saya tahun depan la ya?

selain dewan di atas, mmg takde proper dewan dah kat Kluang.

kluang is a very small town, so yg ni mmg paling cantik.

the parents pun tanak buat kat tempat lain.

so takpelah, semua i serah pada his parents.

memang frust, tapi i always look at the positive side.

tapi mungkin ada hikmahnya.

mungkin beri kami lebih masa untuk buat preparation.

kan?

so, tak perlulah saya merungut.

ada hikmahnya.

spread the love

pssst : saya dah beli baju untuk adik beradik, bonda-ayahanda, kawa baik lelaki semua. kawan baik pompuan je tak beli lagi.... soon, very soon. love

APA ADA DENGAN WEDDING MISS X?

2011-07-14T12:34:00.001-07:00

This kinda of question pasti bermain di fikiran semua bride to be.

Ada yang memilih perkahwinan yang gah!
Ada yang mahu perkahwinan yang mewah.
Ada yang hendak perkahwinan yang ramai hadir.
Ada yang inginkan perkahwinan yang small and intimate but luxurious.
Ada yang kekal dengan perkahwinan yang tradisional dan jimat ongkos tapi cantik.

But afterall, who doesnt want a beautiful wedding kan? :) .... so do i.

I want a small, intimate beautiful wedding.

Kalau diizinkan Allah swt? Saya mahu majlis pernikahan yang dihadiri hanya keluarga, saudara terdekat dan beberapa orang kawan rapat. Di majlis pernikahan, hanya 50org. Simple, tanpa pelamin. Kalau ada pun deco bunga dlm pasu2 kecik. Majlis siang (waktu petang prefered)-- hi-tea, tanpa nasi minyak yang cliche. Salam2, amik gambar, balik rumah, tido.

- saya suka daylight utk nikah, malam is a no-no. saya tak mahu sampai 200org waktu nikah, sbb nikah kena hayati. Kongsi kegembiraan dgn yg sangat rapat sahaja. Anyway choppp saya tak paham, husband kalau nak solat sunat kena kusyuk, apa guna solat kalau photographer n videographer keliling? Baik tak payah. No nasi minyak for nikah, only reception. saya personally rasa tiada keperluan menjaga hati semua org. Jaga hati ibu bapa dah memadai. Buat apa susah payah nak nikah, balik ada pulak kenduri kat rumah? Pastu ada pulak reception lain. Tak ke membebankan? Taktaulah kalau parents saya nak mcmtu. Entahlah, Masing2 punya cara.

Saya taknak reception saya dihadiri beribu org yg saya tak kenal. Biarlah 100org pun asalkan yg dtg tu share my happiness. Saya nak reception kurang drpd 500 org. Biarlah org kata "buat apa spend RM?k utk kurang 500pax? Tak balik modal! Baik RM?k ko jemput 2000org!!" . Mahu saja saya ckp pada si polan, saya tak mintak pun balik modal. Kalau ada, rezeki mak ayah saya. Kalau takde, rezeki org sekeliling yg datang, luangkan masa, kongsi gembira; sayangi kita n kita sayang mereka. Makanan penting. favors pun saya akan beri makanan. Segala benda perhiasan di badan atau dewan, saya bersyukur je setakat yang keluarga saya mampu.

- logik jemput tetamu yg sedikit adalah supaya mereka gembira sepanjang majlis. Buat apa ajak 2000 org kalau yg dtg lmbt makanan tak cukup n complaint? Lebih teruk lagi yang makan 2-3 round tapi sibuk mengata catering murah tak sampai 10ringgit. Motif? Soal gifts pula, biarlah depa tak boleh simpan buat kenangan, at least to me niat memberi masuk perut tetamu lagi baik, biarlah any form of food. Baju, pelamin, semua tu saya bersyukur je la... Rezeki saya baik sbb ada parents yang memahami.

Apa pun bagi kedua2 majlis, yang saya nak adalah a small-beautiful wedding like i always wanted.

Ps: nak tergelak bila ada sorg rakan bertanya "reception ko jemput brapa org?". "tak sampai 500 pun". "hah??? Kau agak-agaklah kalau nak jimat pun. Jgn kedekut sgt. Aku ni pun ajak 1500 tau kat umah!". Saya senyum je. Dalam hati saya berbisik, tapi simpan sendiri sahaja... Tapi yang zahirkan kepada si rakan "takpela, itu je yang aku mampu.." senyum dan beredar.

- buat apa canang sana-sini, pastu hujungnya majlis anda ala-kadar sahaja? Silent is gold. Baik diam-- kalau majlis biasa2 pun tak salah, kalau majlis extra sikit pun tak salah. Better diam. Betul tak? Kalau nak share, biar habis majlis. At least it's there, bukan sekadar omong kosong...

MAKEUP ARTIST MURAH!

2011-07-14T08:33:00.001-07:00

Ok, ini bukan statement. Ini nak mintak pandangan/pertolongan uols. Ada tak kenal kawan2 yg pandai makeup. Takyah makeup artist, takyah mak andam. Asalkan dia pandai makeup, takyahlah beria sgt asalkan cantik. I nak mintak siapkan touch up my bridesmaids and my mum. Budget rm200 camtu. Do ask around ye kalau ada kwn2 berbakat gitu... Thanks, love!

Pssttt: esok post 16jars of cookies! Kecuali lisa, pass by hand ;p . Alhamdulillah, thanks for d order,readers! 2nd batch i'll deliver this coming 22nd july.... Sila order before 20th july kalau nak masuk dlm list 2nd batch.

Yang nak raya order, waktu email tulis subject: RAYA ORDER

CHOICE OF COOKIES:
- choc chip cookies rm10 per jar (around 40pcs and above)
- rainbow cookies rm12 per jar (around 35pcs and above)
- diva happy pills aka blueberry crunch rm12 per jar (25pcs)
- premium london almond rm10 (18pcs per jar)
- truffles aka almond choc rm12 ( 18pcs per jar)

Email: whpisy@yahoo.com

THANK YOU VERY MUCHOS!

I HATE PEMBOHONG!!!

2011-07-12T10:00:00.000-07:00

dunia ni kecik... kenapalah kau menipu.

entry ini ditujukan kepada seorang perempuan muka tembok.

dia ni satu-satunya case xerox and eksploitasi yang obvious--

malulah sikit... again, dunia ni kecik.

she mailed me in February tanya pasal candy buffet and favors.

excited habis nak hire TWH ni.

she called me so many times and texted me so many times. senang cerita, she was bugging me every single week 'kononnya' risau candy buffet dia ada slot atau tak. whether i can do it or not.

so, i checked ada event sbnrnya that date but i can slot in sbb time lain-lain.

she replied me macam extremely happy.

being a vendor, i pun happy bila client happy. i sent her quotation and she somewhat agreed (siap upgrade from M to L size ok?!)

the next email of hers, mintak tolong i... NAK MASUK NONA TV3 katanya!

i told her i'm in the newsroom can't help much, but i have a friend buat Nona.

I pun baik hati mintaklah dia send me briefly about her wedding.

Si polan email lah i....

Bukan main lagi katanya dia stewardess MAS and husband dia pun sama.

Wedding concept grand-- LOVE IN THE AIR. perkahwinan awan biru la.

her wedding brief--- kawan2 dia pakai uniform MAS (by right dia boleh disaman sbb ada peraturan pakaian ber-uniform *edit: she said dah minta kebenaran. baguslah*) but tak kesahlah, itu wedding dia.

Pastu dia email i-- doorgifts dia nanti MAS mini planes and nanti ada 5ft replica MAS plane waktu cake-cutting.

And nak dijadikan gempak cerita dia-- dia senaraikan segala nama sultan, kerabat, menteri, CEO sana-sini. wah grand gituuuuu.

*hairan jugak, bukan nak rendahkan.. but dia kata wedding nya kat dewan komuniti*

cerita va-va voom!

(since i work in the newsroom ada menteri and CEO yang dia mentioned, i've met them in person-- jangan sampai i tell them and let them sue u for using their names!)

*edit: she said dia memang kenal semua tu sbb dulu kerja hotel 3 tahun. ok fine. :) *

aku ni pun sengal, excited sangat siap forward dekat kawan aku kat Nona untuk cover wedding dia. haha when my friend told me boleh cover, aku pun excited called this girl to tell her the good news! hahahha u know wut, dah dapat tahu nak masuk TV, lepas tu DIAM terussss!

i mailed and texted her utk discuss pasal candy buffet and favors, dia diam je. tiba-tiba she told me, nak tanya kakak dia dulu. motif??? tup-tup tak jadi hire i sbb kakak dia nak buat! hahah nampak sangat MEMPERGUNAKAN i untuk masuk tv kan? aku benci pembohong!!!

u know wut, i got to know from a friend she actually did candy buffet by HERSELF! akak dia assist je. hahaha guna nama akak dia untuk membohong aku. anyway, her first mail hantar dkt i konon2 tnaya pasal candy buffet tu was 1st February- last mail 4th March 2011, lepas tu diam terusssssss. hahaha i dapat tahu, perempuan ni siap set-up bisnes candy buffet jugak!!! set-up blog bisnes dia 29 March 2011! after she received my candy buffet quotation format!!!

and lagi lawak tu siap promote kat blog dia--- her creation akan masuk Nona 17 July ni!!! tak maluuuuuu! dahlah betray aku to get the quotation, pastu tipu aku kata kakak set-up, pastu bukak bisnes tiru aku, pastu promote kat orang bisnes baru dia tu masuk tv sedangkan yang tolong kau masuk tv pun aku ni tho kau stranger yang menyamar potential client!!! (walaupon kau propa kerabat bagai, nak hire TWH bagai) TAK MALU KE???

so korang semua, tengoklah wedding dia yang dia propa grand sgt 17 July ni dekat Nona TV3. nantikanlahhhh. konsep steward-stewardess MAS tu ada kat bridesmaids dia je. yang doorgifts, replica 5ft tu semua TAK ADA!!! kawan i yang attend her majlis pun cakap dia ni mmg propa!

*name removed, she mailed me. apologized*

to owner My Lacey Cookie Jar, shame on you.

I still keep all ur mails and sms-es. jangan sampai i publish dekat sini.

berhentilah propa, sembunyilah bawah meja, tukarlah nama kamu daripada memalukan diri sendiri dengan cara menipu and bohong orang lain.

seriously, u're such an embarassment.

*isi lain dikekalkan sebagai pengajaran kepada semua dan diri saya sendiri*

MACARONS PROMO ORDER CLOSED!

2011-07-11T08:22:00.001-07:00

***no longer valid***

Phewwwwww buat promo 15pcs rm40 for small size sampai tak menang tangan. Bukan kenapa, sbb mcm2 colour requested with diff kind of flavor. Almost 600macarons, can u imagine? And most cuatomers are my silent readers and a few bloggers. So i mmg kena tutup this promo, sbb if kira balik balik modal 16cents each je. Adoi. So from now on, macarona jadi rm3 balik. Andddddd i akan tetapkan fixed warna+flavor. Order above 100pcs je boleh deman nak warna apa, with flavor apa. So, berikut my list of fixed color/filling;
1) brown: choc ganache
2) light brown: caramel or coffee
3) dark grey: oreo
4) ivory: strawberry
5) orangey red: orange/lime
6) green: icy buttercream (new!)
7) blue: choc nutella mix (new!)
8) purple: lavender buttercream (new!)
9) red: raspberry (new!)

Anyways, cookies sample order almost comes to an end on this 14th where u can order even ONE jar. But do take note, starting 15th july til 15th august i will only take raya order of 3jars minimum per customer. 10jars, free 1. After 15th august, no morw cookies.

Place ur order now! whpisy@yahoo.com

PROSEDUR TUKAR LOKASI NIKAH. HELP ME!!!!

2011-07-10T22:23:00.000-07:00

hello koranggggggggggg, urgent!!!
saya orang selangor. tinggal kat shah alam.
my nikah venue will be in KL.
i got to know ada procedure nak tukar-tukar ni.
but i don't know how. please guide me!
step-by-step lagi bagus.
thank youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu

QUDYN AZIZ !!!

2011-07-10T07:11:00.000-07:00

hello everyone,
most of b2b bloggers sure familliar dgn nama qudyn aziz kan?
the guy who worked with radzwan radzwill for 7 years before he started with his own brand a few years back. he's the backbone i think. ya, i think... :)
talked to him a couple of times.

i went to to his boutique and guess what...
...was smiling ear-to-ear looking at his collection.
he has improved tremendously.
believe me, it's unfair to look at his design in 2008.
it's 2011 uols. he is soooooooooooooo good!
but one thing, qudyn himself is very very shy.
i mistaken him sebagai sombong last time.
rupanya idak, dia tak sombong, dia pemalu... :)
sbb tu org tua kata, tak kenal maka tak cinta.
so being me, yang bubbly and tak tahu malu.
i snapped so many photos dekat his boutique.

sembang 2jam dah rasa macam kawan.
haha so i believe he's the type yang kena warm-up.
sembang lama-lama, dia mmg ok sebenarnya.
and the price is truly worth it.
no doubt, last time his rate was lower back then.
but again, it's 2011 uols!
so harga naik sikit.
but with the quality, i still think it's worth it.

don't u want to custom-made a gorgeous reception dress at only RM2500-RM3500?
...or at least a simple nikah attire at RM1500?
not cheap, but totally worth every single cent.
trust me.

jumpa qudyn tell him YUYU reccomend :)

EXCLUSIVE!!! DIVA HAPPY PILLS!

2011-07-08T19:37:00.000-07:00

hello peeps, i'm back!
are you salivating when looking at those pictures? hahaha

Diva Happy Pills (blueberry crunch) only available dari Miss X's kitchen.

it's pretty, it's yummy. unlike some others!

bukan sahaja cantik, malah guarantee sedap.

the cookies sangat sangat crunchy.

and not to forget the yummy blueberry-purple dip! nyumssssssssss

not only the kids will love it, but the ladies too!

usually kalau buat untuk candy buffet, i charge RM20 for 30pcs...

ut untuk raya order, RM12 for 25pcs! letak dalam jar with ribbon :)

harga yang missX letak sama je dengan harga pasaran, if u double the scale: RM24 for 50pcs.

skrg kat kl cookies pun range RM25-RM30 for 50pcs.

so ok la, i siap letak dalam glass jar with ribbon, u! boleh terus letak atas meja :)

get you diva happy pills now!

only at RM12 per jar!

email me: whpisy@yahoo.com

ps: choppppp i'm so sorry sebab tak dapat do the postage today gara-gara perhimpunan bersih i dipanggil kerja. :(anyhow, i'll do the postage the soonest. here's postage schedule for this month:

postage/collection date: 14th/15th July.

next bacth: 20th/21st July.

MACARONS ORDER!!!

2011-07-02T04:31:00.000-07:00

***promo no longer valid***

first batch collection date: 20th july & 21st july (ttdi/damansara)

theme colour: soft pink/ soft yellow / grey

flavour: choc ganache / peanut butter / coffee

quantity: 15 pcs per box

price: RM40

*shall u require mix colour/flavor = one box of 15pcs is RM45

email: whpisy@yahoo.com

COOKIES ORDER!!!

2011-07-02T04:20:00.000-07:00

thank you girls yang baru placed sample order!
and sorry to those yang masih clueless how the cookies look like.
i can't expect u girls to click 'older post' in order to search for the cookies photos aite?
so, to those yang masih tertanya-tanya rupanya, i currently have photos of:
1) choc-chip cookies
2) rainbow cookies
3) macarons

you can view them here:
http://theweddingheaven.blogspot.com/2011/06/twh-baking-with-love.html

almond london, havana cookies, blueberry dip and truffles in the making untuk postage 8th july ni!

hahaha thank you kepada anda2 yang comel order truffles and havana cookies though i haven't upload the photos yet. thank you for the trust! hugs and many many hugs!

yang nak sample order-- kindly place booking and payment before April 6th ya? (untuk first batch shipment) email: whpisy@yahoo.com

MANILA HERE I COME!

2011-07-01T10:06:00.001-07:00

Ok jakun.
First time nak pegi philippines.
Seumur hidup this is my 1st time; mungkin bcoz i dont favor country with language i dont speak. Which in a way-- i won't buy air tickets to any hard-to-communicate countries. No way for vacation, but kalau company hantar, mak on je!

Anyway, it's true-- for an example i sakit hati if pegi bangkok (walaupun murah) i think we speak better english than them, like seriously! Korang sakit ati tak?? It's very hard to even ask for directions from the cab drivers! And to bargain is even harder, pakai calculator ok? Aku ckp english, depa reply bahasa thai. Fenin!

That explains why indonesia is always my must-go-visit place. Setahun pegi 4-5 kali pun i tak kisah. i dont speak their slang, but they still udrstand our lingo. Shopping is relatively affordable and easy to find halal food. Tee hee I like!
English speaking country pun sonang-- spore, oz , europe countries, dubai, africa... Depa tak paham bahasa melayu but they speak english. (rendah diri)

Alrite, back to square one-- the philippines.
Haruslah meks tak speak tagalog, noks!
But mum said their english is way better compared to thai people. Nahunya je berbeza. Filipinos tend to emphasis the letter 'R' when they speak english. Curlassssss :)

Mum suruh i pegi one place namanya Divi Mall (tanah abang versi filipina) hahaha i remember when i was in high school, bonda balik beli macam wristlet banyak2 kasi dekat me and cousins. And each cost only 50sen which bonda bought in divi mall, manila. So i wajib pegi situ :)

Buying barang2 macam souvenirs, wedding gifts and boxes are cheap too, kata my bonda. So, manalah tau.... Hahah just incase, walaupon my trip tak sampai seminggu, wajib bawak luggage besar. Just incase.

I'm attending a conference in Manila. Since it's a funded trip, maka i don't worry much kalau excess baggage pun haahahahaha. One thing i hope, hope and hope--- time pls be kind to me.

Til then! Love

ps: anyone dah pernah pegi manila, any suggestion where i shud go? Do share :)

COOKIES SAMPLE ORDER!!

2011-06-30T22:08:00.001-07:00

To those who ordered/paid for the samples, i'll post the cookies on JULY 8th/9th. InsyaAllah. Will be in the phillipines until 7th.
First sample batch:
Una
Lisa
Najwa
Abby
Nurul.M
Hasnah
Ainun
Nurul.A
Deena

Fyi, i'll start taking raya orders july 15th- august 15th. Minimum order is 3jars. Jar with ribbon :)
1) choc chip cookies- RM10 per jar (around 40pcs)
2) rainbow cookies- RM12 per jar (around 35pcs)
3) almond london - RM10 per jar (18pcs)
4) havana cookies- RM10 per jar (18pcs)
5) truffles- RM12 per jar (18pcs)
6) blueberry crunch RM10 per jar (around 30pcs)

Order 10jars, free 1 jar of ur choice.

Do order as gifts to bakal mak mertua, bakal ipar, keluarga in-laws hahaha
Or own consumption, family, office, etc.

I still open sample orders until july 15th :)
RM(one jar) + RM6(poslaju)
eg:
Choc chip RM10+RM6= RM16

RM6 poslaju fee is up to 2jars only. 3-4jars RM12, 5-6jars RM18 poslaju and so on...

SAMPLE ORDER: limited to one jar per type of cookies per customer.

EMAIL: whpisy@yahoo.com

Sample order : before july 15th
Raya order: before august 15th

Raya hampers/corporate gifts will menyusul :)

Love
Yuyu

MACARONS BOX! (gimme ideas!)

2011-06-29T07:09:00.001-07:00

I'll start selling macarons in a box! :)
each box is rm42 (?) consists of 15pcs macarons (normal TWH size, not big-fat macarons)...
but yet to decide whether to mix variety colorful macarons OR only 3 colours with 3 flavours in a box?
i was thinking to do promotion, buy 3 boxes at 120 instead of rm126 ( for ramadhan orders 20th july-20th aug ONLY)
I have so many things in mind.
So whih is better, colourul macs with various flavours, or 3colours+3flavors?
Do share ur opinion :)

Love

------DECISION------
I'll be selling first batch of 15pcs italian style colourfulMACARONS (colours determined by TWH) collection date JULY 18th! :)

FIRST BATCH PROMO: RM40 only!

place ur order now!!!!! (BEFORE July 15th)
whpisy@yahoo.com
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ps:
i'll limit second batch to only 3colours + 3flavours starting AUGUST at RM45 per box.

Colours u can choose from:
Soft pink
Soft green
Blue
Yellow
Grey
Brown

Flavors u can choose from:
Choc ganache
Peanut butter
Coffee
Strawberry
Orange

Love

HOW TO UPLOAD VIDEO??

2011-06-28T19:38:00.001-07:00

Hello all, please teach me how to upload videos on blogger ;) i seriously dont know how. I know i promised to share the wedding video by fadfilm. But how to upload? Teach me, teach me!

LATEST CANDY BUFFET :)

2011-06-28T00:55:00.000-07:00

my latest candy buffet.

an L size.

it's hard to combine 3 colours as requested on one table-- soft purple/soft pink/ greenish-yellow.

but i thank them for trusting and loving the outcome.

if u love the fancy cookies--- place ur order now!

homemade chocs contributed by her aunty, cake in the middle by her cousin :)

u know, i normal don't share much on my creations since i hate copycats.

let me quote rizalman's "people copy u, because u're good"

candy buffet was not my idea either, it's from the US.

but i strongly believe i'm the first in Malaysia. to establish this creation. (ye ke?) ha ha

i don't mind more vendors doing it, but come on... change the arrangement pls...

janganlah sampai rekaletak pun nak tiru kan? :) takpela, halal je la... readers and clients are wiser in judging. :)

love