ANUGERAH SKRIN 2013

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ANUGERAH SKRIN 2013

When others throw stones at you, let them... don't throw back at 'em.

Pick up the stones real quick and start building a wall, so they will stop throwing.

Don't seek for revenge, revenge itself will haunt them down.

Success is indeed the sweetest revenge. Let haters eat their hearts out! :) 

WHISPER, LAURIER or LIBRESSE ??

haaaaaa
uols kalau tgk nama2 di atas pasti tahu apa i maksudkan..
takkan lah nama future daughter kan?? (haruslah tak!!!)
itu nama jenama2 bila kita jumpa minggu istimewa setiap bulan... :)
(sbnrnya ternampak iklan kat sblh ni, terus feeling nak citer pasal period haha)

ok apa kata kita kongsi cerita
i remember my first period was in 1997 :)
that was yearsssssss ago...
i woke up in the morning at around 8am on Saturday (typical sbb nak tgk Alam Ria Disney haha)
.... mula2 ok.
dah pergi toilet bagai, tengah mandi tiba2 tgk ada darah...mmg awal tu dah sakit perut igt nak ber*k haha
(ok time tu dah agak dah i period sbb ramai kawan2 dah period dari darjah 6 haha)

ecehhhhh...sakit konon

i was not that lucky because bonda takde kat malaysia she's in turkey that particular time to chair a meeting
my father was around...erkkkk and yes, he was the only one at home that particular time.
abg and mike went out pegi sekolah ada ko-kurikulum camtulah.
bibik time tu kebetulan takde, coz sent her the day earlier to spend one whole day dgn saudara dia.
being the only girl in the family i was so shy to tell my father.
so i folded lots of tissues jadi panjang ala2 pad hahahaha
watched tv as if nothing happened (boleh??)

a few hours later,my brothers dah balik.
my brother nak mandi, Mike told me dia jumpa darah dalam toilet.
me??? dup dap dup dap takut depa tahu!
i told Mike that i killed a lizard ( hahah boleh propa darah cicak??)
and guess what, my brother told everyone in the house a cicak died.
he started to question how the lizard died and what not! (ok adik aku pet lover.. lizard? pet? ok tak! animals lover la, kucing ke,hamster ke, nyamuk ke semua dia kaji ok?)

aku mula rasa tak selesa
at around 6pm i decided to break the news (boleh??? tahan 10 jam!)
so yes, my father was the first to know about it :)
he called bonda.... (guna phone gabak 010 baling anjing pon boleh mati)

bonda balik a few days later and educate me on menses and what not
kalau uols blaja marketing pernah dgr tak Brand Loyalty (org tak belajar marketing pon tau sbrnya haha)
my mum ni jenis loyal to one brand, say....
sabun basuh = fab
ubat gigi = colgate
bleach = clorox
dish detergent = axion
beg sekolah = swan (ok yg ni sampai form1 je, form2 protest nak beg roxy. warna striking pink kau!)
kasut = bata (puas mengamuk nak pallas jazz, time form 1 tu konon tak cool pakai bata haha)
pad??? = Whisper

yessssssssssssssss
jadi sejak tingkatan satu sampai mula2 masuk university mmg saya pakai Whisper...
sbb bonda akan beli pack 20pcs yang lekat dua packs terus.
dia amik 1, saya amik 1 :)
maklumlah dua org je perempuan dlm rumah ni.

tapi bila dah lama sikit masuk university, dah mula beli sendiri... cuba2 la laurier, kotex bagai.
kotex saya confirm tak boleh pakai! senang bocor!
so guna laurier instead... maklumlah student, laurier murah uolsss! RM4 je!

this year saya jumpa satu brand yg sgt best!!!
LIBRESSE !!!!
uolssssss selesa sgt.
stkt ni tak pernah bocor.
so saya rasa elok saya share dgn kawan2 dan juga bonda betapa selesanya dgn Libresse

setakat ni pakai Libresse tak pernah bocor. Never dissapoint me . 

kalau ikut bonda, sampai ke sudah dia takkan change from Whisper.
but come... whisper sgt expensive kot!! (bocor jugak)
pakai Libresse mmg best.
So saya rasa tak salah kalau kita tukar jenama from the product yg kita guna dari kecik.
Tak salah mencuba.
Saya dah cuba, uols bila lagi?
Saya suka Libresse !

ceria dengan Libresse ! wahhhh gituuuuuu kemain bersemangat and segar!

JOM KONGSI CERITA!

PREMIUM BEAUTIFUL - HONEST REVIEW

Note: my own experience. didnt receive any payment to write this. and i'm not selling PB.

I believe most of u heard a lot about the product ; corset, Premium Beautiful.

Some bought and found PB amazing.

Some hate it and regret they spent so much on an inner wear.

I got mine 2 months before wedding day from Dura.

I was fat, not chubby. yes, fat.

The first week, i religiously wear PB; pening sikit, rasa nak muntah kalau terlebih makan.

So, what i did later,  i only wear waist nipper.. without the long bra and girdle.

In 2 weeks time i received lotsa compliments from my colleagues.

But they know i'm wearing the waist nipper since upper bra-line nmpk bulging (lemak i laaa ;p)

Then i decided to wear the 3pcs religiously.

Mula2 it's true rasa macam tak boleh bernafas (note: it's new, size ngam2 ikut badan)

But once u lost weight and ur body dah ikut bentuk corset, u'll be fine.

ada rasa gatal2 sometimes sbb i mmg ada eczema, so i sentiasa ada zyrtec to the rescue.

Rupa-rupanya salah i sendiri sebab 2 hari sekali basuh.

PB ni kena rajib basuh everyday ye.

In a month time rasa makin selesa dan teruskan pemakaian.

Alhamdulillah at the end of the day, i lost a lot of weight.

Pinggang lebih lngsing waktu wedding day.

From size UK12 to UK8, not bad la kan in a few months kot.

Haiya kenapa la PB takde for face because apparently my face was really bulattt on my wedding month.

i wanted to heal the eczema i have on my feet.

So i had sterois jab done by the dermatologist.

kaki dah cantik, sadly dapat moon face pulak, side effect of the steroid jabs.

can do nothing about it... pasrah :))

but anyway, here are some pros n cons about PB:

cons:

1) gatal sikit (pada mulanya shj)

2) tak bernafas sikit (pada mulanya shj)

3) tak menguruskan lengan! haha

pros:

1) instant slimming effect, sarung je, terus muat pakai jeans yang lama tak pakai

2) in a month boleh tolong shape ur body, turun 2-3 sizes

3) badan lebih tegap,baiki posture

4) nampak boobs lebih mantap (pakai dengan cara yang betul)

5) dapat berat ideal

so, kelebihannya memang nyata melebihi kekurangannya. jadi saya sbg pengguna PB (bukan penjual).. amat menggalakkan kalau uols berniat nak beli PB. worth investment, trust me! provided, kena rajin pakai tiap hari yeeeee. :))

*penjual2, jgn pakai gambar saya buat testimoni ye. saya tak benarkan*

gambar sebelum pakai pb. uk12. gemuk dan gelebeh, lihat saja perut saya itu.

gambar bila dah lama pakai pb, takde la kurus, uk8 je. but wayyyy better than before. 

i'm satisified sbb tak la gelebeh cam dulu. haha

IMPORTANT:

hati-hati dgn penjual PB yang nak mengaut keuntungan semata2. Jual sbb nak dpt komisyen, lepas u hilang terus bila kita nak tanya apa2. Lesaplah bila dah dapat duit kan?? tarik kita suruh join the PB business la, apa lah... if u know that u're not a seller type, then don't! just buy the corset for ur own use unless u betul2 niat nak business. Myself, i never intend to sell, i'm a consumer. I got mine from Dura Mokhtar and sangat berpuas hati sbb after-service tip-top. dah 2 tahun berlalu, Dura masih keep in touch dgn saya.... Alhamdulillah. Siap dpt wash & lactolite free lagi! :)) jadi ingat pesanan saya, hanya beli kepada penjual yang ikhlas dan reliable. insyaAllah wearing PB will be a wonderful experience! kalau nak beli PB, carilah Dura: 0127993624

GRADUATE STUDIES

did u regrettably pass up a chance to study overseas during undergrad?

regret to not pursue ur studies abroad sbb risau sgt nk tggl bf back in Msia?

skrg baru nak sentap knowing that some of ur classmates with average scores pun mampu survive abroad and well... graduated.



ya, timbul perasaan itu lately.

bukan jealous, tapi envy ( ada beza ya )

teringat zaman sekolah, nombor 1,2,3 tu mmg forever dlm my annual edu record book.

masuk sekolah menengah plg teruk pun no11 dlm tgkatan (mind u, ada 479 students ye my batch.. so 11 tu still letops la ha



form5 mula lah babak baru nk bcinta... bonda encouraged pergi study in oz, takmau sbb taknak tggl cinta hati dan kawan2...

maka sambung blajar di mmu ; alpha IT , beta software engineering.

putus cinta,drop- out :(( frust menonggeng

tak belajar setahun

dah sober sikit masuk uniten, english prog

itupun sbb nk stalk ex bf yg katanya di upm (nearby)

later,chose not to wait for my ex any longer,so masuk uitm



alhamdulillah, back on track





sbg seorg student w science bground,im not saying masscomm is easy...

skalipun i dah tak hadap calculus, prob, physics lab, namun masscomm ada susahnya yg tersendiri... seriously, cubalah kalau nk rasa blajar 30 chapters every subject but taktau apa 5 soalan yg keluar exam...pnat baca 4pages, if the area we focused n studied but tak keluar,how? pitam! semua essay ye, bukannye boleh tembak mcm MCQ.

well dh trbukti, ramai je law students,accounting students masuk massomm pun didnt graduate with flying colors pun.sbb exam papers hazabnya adalah each paper u hv to write like 5essays, out of 7? pilihan tak byk, so if tau 3 je, lg dua u hv ni idea at all, berbuih sawan dlm exam hall haha



alhamdulillah saya lulus cemerlang, ANC, cgpa 3.89 ( gila tak cemerlang? best student iols hahaha walaupon iols ni bukanlah jenis hadap classes n buku sgt) hazab jugak blaja technical, how to operate a camera, radio conty, visual editing, produce a tv programme, etc... susahnya yg amat bersengkang mata, perah keringat huhu



back to d main purpose of this entry

i was offered a job at tv3 before i even graduated...alhamdulillah

but that in a way, kenapa saya tak berkesempatan to even think of pursuing my MA.

more n more recently, some of my friends r turning to international institutions to obtain their MA degrees

here among malaysians, going overseas to pursue MA, not only more common but also becoming more respected, in a way ( if u get wut i mean)

i am very definite none of my college friends dpt scholarship pun bcoz apparently takde biasiswa utk kursus masscomm. but they r lucky to have parents who are willing to fork out or loan 200k for their fees n living cost abroad.

my mother mmg menggalakkan i sambung belajar selagi blum ada anak but at 29y-o takkanlah nk burden my old-cutest mum kan? tak sampai hati. cannot. (My mum obtained her masters at 30, phD at 40, and another phD at 46... Hebat tak? Sbb tu it's nvr too late katanya...)

anywayyyyy saya ttp merasakan obtaining a graduate degree abroad is a wise investment + wpun epf n savings tak smpai 50k mcm lisa Surihani lagi hehe



to pursue PG abroad ada 3 major advantages --

*- possibility of higher career improvement ( higher pay hehe)

*- a whole new experience

*- caliber



itu je la kot huhu

so skrg apa motif i?

i nk tanya kpd readers, if ada rezeki sikit should one go oz, uk or us?
*berangan kejap*
share with me why n cost of living ( a year)



nak amik ielts... any tips?



LOVE

MY SOCIAL NETWORK

Salam,
saya mulakan dengan ucapan maaf.
kerjaya saya kini menuntut saya menjadi seorang yang lebih profesional, tidak bersosial melampau dan tidak meroyan di mana-mana sosial network, dsb...

banyak perkara kena jaga.

jadi saya terpaksa tutup account FB Yuyu Missx & Theweddingheaven

harap kawan-kawan faham ye.
sebab ada yang msg, email minta approve di personal account.
masalahnya di personal FB account byk kawan kerja.
boss pun ada.
ada juga aunties and uncles saya yg memantau di FB tu.

jadi kepada kawan-kawan who wish to stay in touch boleh ikuti social netowrk berikut:

TWITTER: yuyuaziz
INSTAGRAM: yuyuaziz3
FACEBOOK: Nurulhuda Abd Aziz

terima kasih ye semua.
sokongan anda semua amat saya hargai.


sayang, sayang, sayang

MUAH!

TALK LESS

Saya sekarang ambil pendekatan talk less.
Sebagai seorang yang bubbly, outgoing dan jovial seringkali ada yang salah erti.
Contohnya bila ada pertelingkahan dengan orang yang lebih pasif.
Org keliling pandang mcmlah aku ni bitch.
Hakikatnya yang pasif tu banyak membohongi, memfitnah dan mengataku di belakang.
Saya sudah dewasa.
Saya tak perlu kata apa-apa.
It's childish. Biarkan.
Orang yang kuat membohong ni kejap je kuasa dia untuk mempengaruhi orang lain untuk menyebelahinya. Lambat-laun orang akan tau juga. Truth will prevail. Saya hanya senyum. Semoga Allah mengampunkan dosa kau kerana memfitnah aku.

CONNECTICUT ELEMENTARY SCHOOL SHOOTING

Look at them.

They're only 6.

Shot in the deadly mass shooting.

Emilie & Noah , among the 20 children killed.

How can their parents hold back their tears?

i just couldn't.

i just couldn't.

:(

My heart goes out to all parents & victims of the Sandy Hook horrible shooting.

The kids... :(( may they rest in peace.

ADULT PSORIASIS? ADULT ECZEMA?

Hello ladies,
Hollywood celebs revealed they have psoriasis/eczema.
Kim K n Britney Spears. 
It's like a campaign or something so sufferers tau they're not alone like ---hey! Celebs arent perfect either. They're just like us... 

So ya, if ada yg nak tanya pada saya, i am willing to share.
How i suddenly got it a few years back and how i deal with it.
i dont mind sharing.
sebelum ni pun kaki saya mulus licin.
cuma tuhan beri saya ujian di usia 20-an.
pada mulanya rendah diri.
lama-kelamaan saya redha.

*sejak lahir- 25 tahun*

*kaki mulus dan licin, tidak allergy kepada apa2*

nama pun adult psoriasis, adult eczema .... mmg la dapat waktu dewasa kan?
waktu kecik takde, mmg sikit pun tak allergic.
buat la apa pun, makan la apa pun!

bermula dengan my toe pada around 8-9 years ago.
kemudian di ibu jari kaki hilang...merebak pula ke tapak tangan saya.
di celah2 jari pun ada. pedih betul! macam papercut.
it's scaly (mcm kulit kering la, tapi lagi teruk sbb gatalnya smapai ke dalam)... 
malu pun ada jugak.
dua tahun lalu dia bermula di kedua-dua belah kaki :(
di tangan Alhamdulillah dah takde.
psoriasis/eczema flared up waktu stress.
nasib-nasib. taktau bila dan bahagian mana yang kena. 

kadang2 ada yang jahil mengeluarkan kenyataan "muka licin, tapi kaki buruk"
...choppp! kalau ada kawan kita kena resdung, hidung-mulutnya habis hilang 'dimamah' penyakit itu, adakah kita akan mentertawakannya?  tidak kan?
...kalau kawan kita ada penyakit kencing manis, kakinya dipotong adakah kita akan mentertawakannya? tidak kan? 
...atau if kawan kita menghidap breast cancer and she has to remove oen of it, will we laugh? NO!!!
kerana itu penyakit.
nampaklah mentaliti tahap cetek apabila menghina penyakit orang.

satu hari nanti, lambat laun--- semua orang akan sakit.
be it sakit dalaman atau nampak di luaran.
bersyukurlah sementara tuhan masih belum beri penyakit padamu, jangan dihina penyakit orang lain.
so to those who do not know what is proriasis and what is eczema, dont simply laugh.
so u fool, better not to to say anything and nampakkan kejahilan sendiri.
it's shallow to disgust.
fyi ---
it's not contagious.
it has got nothing to do with hygiene.
it's in the sufferers' blood.
it can't be cured, but i can be controlled.

it's been a year saya mendapatkan rawatan di DEMC bersama Dr. Noraziah Abdul Kadir.
and she's the best so far!
bayangkan sejak mula kena i think dah berpuluh-puluh doktor saya jumpa, tak baik2 pun.
Alhamdulillah dengan Dr Noraziah, tidaklah melampau2 psoriasis dan eczema ku.
syukur alhamdulillah.

Nak tanya apa-apa, jangan malu jangan segan. 
Saya sedia menjawab dan berkongsi :)

HUGS

10 RANDOM FACTS ABOUT ME

1) bila makan nasi lemak, suka simpan telur kuning + sambal. (Makan last sekali,sedapnyaaaaaaaaaaa!!!)

2) sering dinilai wanita melaram yg tak mahu berpeluh, hakikatnya seorang athlete
(zaman kegemilangan sudah berlalu, berat badan sudah bertambah)

3) suka tgk org pakai eyeliner, tapi diri sendiri tak tahu cara yg betul mencalot eye-liner (gerenti comot. Kalau makeup artist letak pun akan berair mata)

4) tak suka bergambar (that explains kenapa tak banyak gambar dlm blog)

5) not an expert accepting compliments (malu sebenarnya...)

6) tak pandai mengemas, pandai memasak je (hey, i pernah menang tempat ke-3 pertandingan memasak peringkat kebangsaan ye!)

7) suka garu kaki sebelum tido (hahahaha!)

8) tak suka org tehegeh-hegeh. Lembab. Apatah di escalator (ahhh tension). Juga benci org yang potong barisan, akan ku sound on the spot.

9) kuat ketawa. Tak ingat dunia.

10) paling pantang kalau orang menipu dan membuat aku menunggu.

Sekian buat masa ini, 6 more followers to go!!
A lot to reveal!


Love all of you! Muahhhhh!!!

U WANT GLOWY-FAIR SKIN?

Alhamdulillah I received many compliments and questions on my complexion like "u pakai skincare apa?", "u pakai bedak apa?", "u botox ke?"... Haha seriously!

I am bad at receiving compliments. Do not know how to do it graciously. So instead of saying Thank You, i akan ckp "ye ke? Eee takde la" hahaha padahal hati berkobar2 nak bgtau pakai product apa haha.

Tapi ada je bila i share im taking this tablet/supplement, dorg tak pecaya and akan kata "alaaaa kulit u mmg originally putih n cantik"... Haha siapa kata? Kawan2 sekolah tau la. I dulu main netball, handball, hockey.. Kulit tak penah cantik. Hidung dgn dagu selalu ada jerawat.

Trust me, i am not a religious skin care user. Ada org kata wajib cuci makeup bersih2 sebelum tido. Hahah honestly, i selalu tertido with my makeup on.

Ada yg kata kena pakai branded cleanser and kena beli the whole range la konon kalau nak menjadi. SKII la, dermalogica la, clarins la, apa bagai. I tak pakai pencuci muka pun. Ada lah pernah dulu2 terpengaruh, i beli one whole range of clarins, shiseido pun pernah, SKII pun pernah. But i pakai 2-3minggu je berkobar2, pastu dah malas. Tak disiplin. And bila bhenti pakai tu mula la kulit bertambah sensitive.

And i tak pernah pakai product ramu jamu ala stokis kak munah or datin maimun; natasha, tabita, marykay, vida beauty, felisa ke, apa2 je la mahupon kolagen spesis stokis2 ni semua i mmg tak percaya. Because yg manufacture tu, they're not qualified doctors pun.. Dorg business oriented. I dont dare to put my face in their hands haha

So i'm using this product. Last time ada jual di Malaysia, but if u pegi Farmasi Guardian, Watsons skrg mmg takde la pulak. Ntahla... Sold out ke, or mmg dorg tak carry dah... Taktau la if ada dkt selected outlets je ke.

I makan tablet L-Glutathione PLUS, brand Vitahealth. (haaaaa jgn pandai2 beli brand korea atau stokis2 yg claimed the products are original. Bahaya tau!) beli Brand VITAHEALTH. At least we know mmg diluluskan KKM dah melalui proses2 sepatutnya sbb tu la boleh dijual di farmasi (unlike brand kak munah stokis yg definitely cannot masuk pharmacy) ... So Harga L-Glutathione Plus brand Vitahealth ni RM165, dia mmg jual dua botol terus, satu botol ada 30 tablets, maksudnya RM165 tu dpt 60 tablets la. Untuk bekalan sebulan. Makan selama 3bulan terus nampak perubahan kulit :)) bukan sahaja bertambah glowy, malah bertambah putih! Jerawat pun dah takmau tumbuh walaupun time period.

So sesiapa yang nak kahwin tu, invest la sikit... Start makan 3bulan sebelum wedding. InsyaAllah kulit cantik! Percayalah penjagaan dari dalam, bukannya tepek bedak dan gonyoh skincare.

So pegi la google :
L-Glutathione Plus Vitahealth

Atau boleh baca dkt website Vitahealth.

REAL LIFE INTIMATE WEDDING

* credit to the beautiful couple; bride & groom*

berkahwin di laman rumah pengantin prempuan in the United States, guna garden chair je with beautiful flower deco. sgt intimate.

ayu berselendang and beautiful ukiran henna. beautiful couple.

look at the luscious flowers. the bride beautifully pakai kebaya songket, rantai doko 3tingkat. effortlessly beautiful... and it's undeniable dat the bride mmg cantik.

dengan kehadiran both parents bride&groom, and the grandmother/nenek --i bet. Having the elderly on ur special occasion-- sangat intimate. couldnt ask for more. seriously. they have such a beautiful family.

i bet this attire untuk cake cutting. tukar after the beautiful solemnization.

EVERYTHING IS AWESOMELY BEAUTIFUL!!!

i was browsing my friend's page when i saw beautiful photos of his best friend kahwin with this pretty Malay girl who actually resides in Florida, US. The bride & groom-- both Melayu i think or kacukan melayu. i do not know the beautiful bride, and she definitely tak kenal i pun... but i can't help myself to write about her beautiful wedding and share with u girls.

their wedding sgt intimate... i love intimate weddings attended by a bunch of people i love-- close family and friends only.

like seriously, never in my life ever dream of a grand wedding. mmg i suke something intimate. it touches the softest spot in my heart. maybe if orang tgk saya, ramai sangka saya mahukan majlis grand besar-besaran----they're absolutely wrong. all i want is a small-beautiful wedding. mmg dari kecil macam ni yang saya nak. u can go back to my older posts-- like how i always wanted. intimate wedding.

ok back to this beautiful wedding, i don't know the girl, but pernah jumpa the guy sekali-dua--- mututal friends. but oh-my-goodness..... the wedding is simply beautiful, beautiful and beautiful.

jovial laughing faces, they smiled ear-to-ear, honest photos, all-sincere looking guests, simple deco with beautiful personal touch--- betul2 macam yang i impikan.

insyaAllah~~~ i will get the chance of my own. My guests for nikah is limited to 60pax only, :)) as requested by myself. Mmg betul2 keluarga dan kawan rapat sahaja. Perancangan ni dah dipersetujui kedua pihak since i bertunang 14 March 2010. Alhamdulillah. Asalnya 50pax je ok?... dah dekat ni tambah lagi 10org, jadi 60pax. Final.

On the wedding reception, i rest my case. Bonda n ayahanda have the veto power, saya turutkan sahaja since i have decided anything related to the nikah is solely on me. fair. afteralli trust my parents. thay have a believable taste :) seriously.

xx,

yuyu aziz

*berapa banyak BEAUTIFUL dalam entry ni. can i add another? BEAUTIFUL!!!

MALAYSIANS & RSVP?!

*****Entry ini hanya untuk situasi RSVP utk sit down dinner or strict headcounts (buffet tak termasuk dlm entry ni sbb still flexible)*****



SITUATION 1 : CAKAP BERLAPIK TAK KENA TEMPAT!

Sudah menjadi lumrah rakyat Malaysia when it comes to RSVP:--
Bride: Are you coming? RSVP. need your respond... Prospective guest: InsyaAllah...

it's good to say 'insyaAllah'-- tiada siapa larang. but do you know what insyaAllah really means in RSVP context? maksudnya kamu akan datang, berusaha juga untuk datang. maksud insyaAllah dlm konteks RSVP bukannya-- tengok keadaan. paham?!

so let me all of you out there. jangan jawab gitu lagik. senang je jawapan dia; it's either YES or NO. Tiada istilah MAYBE, buatlah-- kena lempang dengan aku. Why??? it is important to determine head counts. so kalau anda confirm tak boleh datang jangan jawab YES-- sebab katakan di hotel, RM120 per head-- kalau ada 10orang macam korang yg suka hati bedah jawab YES-- tak ke tuan rumah rugi RM1200 dah?! sedangkan kalau korang jawab NO boleh je dia kasi kad dekat org lain... ada paham?? (unless tak boleh datang, notify asap). unless betul2 tak boleh elak--- like myself, in the midst of urus wedding, dengan jadual yang tak tentu hala-- ada wedding yg saya mmg nak sangat pegi tapi kena cancel last minute to fulfill work and family related matters.




SITUATION 2 : UNINVITED GUESTS!

Some people just don't get it! Kalau RSVP, if letak nama " Aminah & pasangan ". Maksudnya DUA orang sahaja ok?? tak kesahlah pasangan anda tu isteri ke, kawan baik ke-- tuan umah tak kisah, asalkan datang seorang atau berdua SAHAJA. jangan pulak " Aminah & pasangan " kau pegi bawak anak 5 orang! tengok tempat la... kalau buffet, mungkin ada kelonggaran sikit, but sitdown dinner tolonglahhhh jangan buat gitu. kau bawak anak 5 orang + 2 orang, 7 orang... katakanlah dekat duchess place RM60++--- anda dah merugikan RM420!!!kalau dah bawak satu proton exora penuh, paling pun kasiklah RM200-- ini tidak, bawah 7pax but kasik RM50! memanglah tuan rumah gembira asalkan anda datang--- but etika tu. paham-paham sendiri ok?

Almost simillar situation-- when it is clearly stated "Aminah & pasangan"... don't you ever ask the bride "Can i bring my 12 year old?" -- Why u shouldn't ask that question? 1) coz it is clearly stated the invitation is for two (unless state otherwise). 2) kids are not allowed? 3) hello cik kak don't leave the bride blinking and feeling guilty la! for god sake she's getting married... takkan kau nak dia jawab "bawaklah..~~~ (dalam nada tak ikhlas?) and kalau kena bridezilla like me you'll get an honest answer "i'm sorry tak boleh... sebab RSVP"... hujungnya kau jugak yang sentap kan? Please read RSVP guidelines, or don't come. :)) *kejam but jujur*

...And another--- if it is clearly stated in the invitation nama anda sahaja, ie: menjemput : AMINAH BINTI AHMAD. maksudnya kau sorang je. toksah pegi jumpa kawan ofis "eh lets go wedding munah together!" or jumpa kawan sekolah " eh! munah nak kahwin next week, dia ada jemput kau tak?" DON'T DO SO! *serious warning* those kind of statement and question is even rude than the bride asking u to RSVP-- which is wayyyy polite! *etiquette*

.. lagi satu, you told the bride "I can't come" but hari majlis you showed up!! menyusahkan je... kalau kata tak datang, toksah datang terus... sbb mungkin your seat tu bride dah bagi kat org lain. ye lah, kita ni org melayu " haaaa mak mertua aku tak jadi turun KL, so besok aku datang wedding kau" huhu bride panic! alamakkk aku nak ltak dia kat meja sapa, aritu kata takleh datang??! pffttttt



SITUATION 3 : THE ABSOLUTE NIGHTMARE TO THE BRIDE!

bride & her family needs you to reply. malangnya, lain suruh buat lain yang korang buat--- ini beberapa kejadian yang menyakitkan hati bride.Jangan jadi golongan ini!:--
1) Jangan cakap dekat bride that you're bringing new boyfriend (yang tak dijemput!)
2) Kalau kawan opis, jangan memandai announce that your kids are coming. (jangan memandai bawak anak kalau kat hall or hotel-- anda mau kanak2 berlari dan panjat pelamin?) -- kalau nak datang sgt, tinggal lah rumah mak mertua atau nursery jap.
3) Hahaha yang ni paling lawak---yang jemput diri sendiri!!! ie: "Eh kau nak kahwin eh? Kau tak ajak aku, siap kau!" (motif?) hahahaha wait for the invitation, if bride n family don't invite just smile and take it positive mungkin lebih ramai yang rapat mereka kena jemput. DO NOT show how thrilled you are about her wedding, sbb mungkin you were never on the guest list pun.

hahahahaha ok tu je buat masa ni :))

ps: in your card, letak ONE mobile number only. orang Malaysia ni i sedar letak number mak, ayah, abang, kakak-- satu keluarga dia letak. macamana orang nak RSVP? kalau dia sms abah awak yang dah 70tahun ala-ala lupa, tak ke dah terlepas RSVP seorang tetamu... betul tak? :) think about it.

MENCARI KETENANGAN.....

i rarely put up my photos-- sekali letak, ambik kau! sampai 4 keping.... allow me to be vain once in a blue moon... :)

beautiful beaches renowned for their beauty and breathtaking landscape never fail to dazzle and entice moi..... ohmmm nommm nommmm

i have less than 30 days! :)

SINDIKET EJEN-PEMBANTU RUMAH

omygod i hv to share this!
my mum took a maid smlm from seorang perempuan bernama Linda from ampang no telefon 019-207xxxx. I kena reveal supaya org lain tak tertipu. dia iklankan di internet tawarkan maid dan sebagainya. So jgnlah terpedaya ya?

so maid diambil semalam, orang jawa. yang hairan tu bila dia ikut my parents balik ke rumah kami, dia tak bwk beg pakaian pun. Bawak plastik je... Jadi on d way to shah alam dia mintak bawak dia kat chowkit nak jumpa kakak dia. so dia turun kete, tinggalkan brg dia suh my parents tunggu kejap.

Dah 2jam tunggu, dia tak muncul! Dah lari ok??? Tak sempat jejak rumah lagi, on the way pun dia boleh lari!!! So my mum called si perempuan linda ni she asked my mum to balik rumah sbb she said mesti maid tu dah lari...

Seolah ada pakatan si ejen ajar maid nak buat apa. Amik duit muka dari majikan, pastu maid lari, ngangalah!! so si ejen ni buat kerja recycle ni. bayangkan kalau tiap bulan dia buat camni. Katakan majikan bayar duit muka rm3k, sbulan ada 20org majikan amik maid dari dia. Maid lari--, sebulan 60ribu dia dapat free camtu je!!!

Laporan polis akan dibuat segera.

BRIDE WITH ECZEMA (dont shy away)

Do u know what is eczema?
Any of u with eczema?
Lost self-confidence?
Hiding ur flaws under a long sleeve, turtle neck, socks or covered shoes?
Looking for a wedding dress that wont show those scars?

Let me tell u..i'm a patient. i hv chronic eczema back then (still hv em now but not as bad) last time my skin was thick and scaly nmpk mcm org masuk bendang. tried numerous specialists since i was 21-22, yerp. 5-6years back it started. I had none during school days infact i was an active student;-- i won 3rd place in national cooking competition, best debater in selangor debate comp, captain for d netball team, played handball and hockey. Pantun, menari, menyanyi semualah i active-- pages if i were to list em all down.

Ya, i never thought i'll hv such skin disorder-- sensitive towards weather, heat/cold, sweat, seafood n a lot more.in the earlier years, my palms were very dry and scaly. Sometimes my skin got injured badly;-- eczema sliced my skin like papercuts (without paper). I do not know; it happened naturally or i scratched during bedtime. Yerp eczema is beyond itchy. 88times itchier than mosquitoes bites. Seriously, anyway it first attacked my mid palm and then my fingers.. Yeah its ugly. I was so shy to shake hands with people i meet. And embarassed everytime the cashier passed me the balance (coins) that i had no choice but to tadah and cashier will definitely gv me a weird expression looking at my ugly hands.

Some insensitive friends even made stupid jokes of the skin disorder i hv without even thinking how it affects me as an eczema patient emotionally. Some said "ewwwww! Gross!" and some might quietly think the skin major cause sbb pengotor. How stupid. but well i wish i can say right on their faces "hey not-so-knowledgable friend, eczema is NOT contagious. Eczema has got nothing to do with hygiene. Its in our blood and we never ask for it, idiot!"

Ya, how i wish... u know what people, as a woman-- harsh remarks seriously break my heart. I've been to soooo many specialists and spent thousands of RM for the treatment. Name it--- sjmc, dsara specialist, tropicana, hosp selayang, hkl, klinik kulit ttdi, klinik kulit in bb and some other. but no one manage to cure.

In 2009, i gave up and started steroid jabs. I went to the doc every month for d jab tho d doctor kept reminding me of the side effects. Since then i gained loads of weight. from 54kg in 2009, now im 66kg. Seriously. Appetite bertambah and the effect of steroid jabs--moonface, bloated. But thats the shortcut to non-ugly skin on my palms and feet.

For 2 years with steroid jabs, this year i realized i encounter difficulties in breathing. So i stop taking d jabs and mula looking for treatments again; here n there. What more im getting married, sure i want a beautiful henna drawings not eczema-maps on hands and feet, aite?

And alhamdulillah someone introduced me to dr noraziah, demc. After more than 20skin specialists since 2005, i'm definite dt dr noraziah is my life and wedding savior. My first treatment was in july.and latest-- today at 10.15am... i can see major progress. Eczema on my two hands TOTALLY vanished! and on my feet, say from 20bintang (spot-scars) i now only have some and they are no longer thick and scaly.

My big day is approaching, i pray eczema will hilang so i can apply beautiful red-henna on my hands and feet :))

To those who hv eczema, dont be embarassed-- u are not alone. n remember, never ever give up!

talk to me. I dont mind. and with open arms,i'll share details n my experiences w d skin specialist. Kita kena ikhtiar.... :)


*BIGGGGG HUGGGG!!!*

APA ADA DENGAN WEDDING MISS X?

This kinda of question pasti bermain di fikiran semua bride to be.

Ada yang memilih perkahwinan yang gah!
Ada yang mahu perkahwinan yang mewah.
Ada yang hendak perkahwinan yang ramai hadir.
Ada yang inginkan perkahwinan yang small and intimate but luxurious.
Ada yang kekal dengan perkahwinan yang tradisional dan jimat ongkos tapi cantik.

But afterall, who doesnt want a beautiful wedding kan? :) .... so do i.

I want a small, intimate beautiful wedding.

Kalau diizinkan Allah swt? Saya mahu majlis pernikahan yang dihadiri hanya keluarga, saudara terdekat dan beberapa orang kawan rapat. Di majlis pernikahan, hanya 50org. Simple, tanpa pelamin. Kalau ada pun deco bunga dlm pasu2 kecik. Majlis siang (waktu petang prefered)-- hi-tea, tanpa nasi minyak yang cliche. Salam2, amik gambar, balik rumah, tido.

- saya suka daylight utk nikah, malam is a no-no. saya tak mahu sampai 200org waktu nikah, sbb nikah kena hayati. Kongsi kegembiraan dgn yg sangat rapat sahaja. Anyway choppp saya tak paham, husband kalau nak solat sunat kena kusyuk, apa guna solat kalau photographer n videographer keliling? Baik tak payah. No nasi minyak for nikah, only reception. saya personally rasa tiada keperluan menjaga hati semua org. Jaga hati ibu bapa dah memadai. Buat apa susah payah nak nikah, balik ada pulak kenduri kat rumah? Pastu ada pulak reception lain. Tak ke membebankan? Taktaulah kalau parents saya nak mcmtu. Entahlah, Masing2 punya cara.

Saya taknak reception saya dihadiri beribu org yg saya tak kenal. Biarlah 100org pun asalkan yg dtg tu share my happiness. Saya nak reception kurang drpd 500 org. Biarlah org kata "buat apa spend RM?k utk kurang 500pax? Tak balik modal! Baik RM?k ko jemput 2000org!!" . Mahu saja saya ckp pada si polan, saya tak mintak pun balik modal. Kalau ada, rezeki mak ayah saya. Kalau takde, rezeki org sekeliling yg datang, luangkan masa, kongsi gembira; sayangi kita n kita sayang mereka. Makanan penting. favors pun saya akan beri makanan. Segala benda perhiasan di badan atau dewan, saya bersyukur je setakat yang keluarga saya mampu.

- logik jemput tetamu yg sedikit adalah supaya mereka gembira sepanjang majlis. Buat apa ajak 2000 org kalau yg dtg lmbt makanan tak cukup n complaint? Lebih teruk lagi yang makan 2-3 round tapi sibuk mengata catering murah tak sampai 10ringgit. Motif? Soal gifts pula, biarlah depa tak boleh simpan buat kenangan, at least to me niat memberi masuk perut tetamu lagi baik, biarlah any form of food. Baju, pelamin, semua tu saya bersyukur je la... Rezeki saya baik sbb ada parents yang memahami.

Apa pun bagi kedua2 majlis, yang saya nak adalah a small-beautiful wedding like i always wanted.

Ps: nak tergelak bila ada sorg rakan bertanya "reception ko jemput brapa org?". "tak sampai 500 pun". "hah??? Kau agak-agaklah kalau nak jimat pun. Jgn kedekut sgt. Aku ni pun ajak 1500 tau kat umah!". Saya senyum je. Dalam hati saya berbisik, tapi simpan sendiri sahaja... Tapi yang zahirkan kepada si rakan "takpela, itu je yang aku mampu.." senyum dan beredar.

- buat apa canang sana-sini, pastu hujungnya majlis anda ala-kadar sahaja? Silent is gold. Baik diam-- kalau majlis biasa2 pun tak salah, kalau majlis extra sikit pun tak salah. Better diam. Betul tak? Kalau nak share, biar habis majlis. At least it's there, bukan sekadar omong kosong...

I HATE PEMBOHONG!!!

dunia ni kecik... kenapalah kau menipu.

entry ini ditujukan kepada seorang perempuan muka tembok.

dia ni satu-satunya case xerox and eksploitasi yang obvious--

malulah sikit... again, dunia ni kecik.

she mailed me in February tanya pasal candy buffet and favors.

excited habis nak hire TWH ni.

she called me so many times and texted me so many times. senang cerita, she was bugging me every single week 'kononnya' risau candy buffet dia ada slot atau tak. whether i can do it or not.

so, i checked ada event sbnrnya that date but i can slot in sbb time lain-lain.

she replied me macam extremely happy.

being a vendor, i pun happy bila client happy. i sent her quotation and she somewhat agreed (siap upgrade from M to L size ok?!)

the next email of hers, mintak tolong i... NAK MASUK NONA TV3 katanya!

i told her i'm in the newsroom can't help much, but i have a friend buat Nona.

I pun baik hati mintaklah dia send me briefly about her wedding.

Si polan email lah i....

Bukan main lagi katanya dia stewardess MAS and husband dia pun sama.

Wedding concept grand-- LOVE IN THE AIR. perkahwinan awan biru la.

her wedding brief--- kawan2 dia pakai uniform MAS (by right dia boleh disaman sbb ada peraturan pakaian ber-uniform *edit: she said dah minta kebenaran. baguslah*) but tak kesahlah, itu wedding dia.

Pastu dia email i-- doorgifts dia nanti MAS mini planes and nanti ada 5ft replica MAS plane waktu cake-cutting.

And nak dijadikan gempak cerita dia-- dia senaraikan segala nama sultan, kerabat, menteri, CEO sana-sini. wah grand gituuuuu.

*hairan jugak, bukan nak rendahkan.. but dia kata wedding nya kat dewan komuniti*

cerita va-va voom!

(since i work in the newsroom ada menteri and CEO yang dia mentioned, i've met them in person-- jangan sampai i tell them and let them sue u for using their names!)

*edit: she said dia memang kenal semua tu sbb dulu kerja hotel 3 tahun. ok fine. :) *

aku ni pun sengal, excited sangat siap forward dekat kawan aku kat Nona untuk cover wedding dia. haha when my friend told me boleh cover, aku pun excited called this girl to tell her the good news! hahahha u know wut, dah dapat tahu nak masuk TV, lepas tu DIAM terussss!

i mailed and texted her utk discuss pasal candy buffet and favors, dia diam je. tiba-tiba she told me, nak tanya kakak dia dulu. motif??? tup-tup tak jadi hire i sbb kakak dia nak buat! hahah nampak sangat MEMPERGUNAKAN i untuk masuk tv kan? aku benci pembohong!!!

u know wut, i got to know from a friend she actually did candy buffet by HERSELF! akak dia assist je. hahaha guna nama akak dia untuk membohong aku. anyway, her first mail hantar dkt i konon2 tnaya pasal candy buffet tu was 1st February- last mail 4th March 2011, lepas tu diam terusssssss. hahaha i dapat tahu, perempuan ni siap set-up bisnes candy buffet jugak!!! set-up blog bisnes dia 29 March 2011! after she received my candy buffet quotation format!!!

and lagi lawak tu siap promote kat blog dia--- her creation akan masuk Nona 17 July ni!!! tak maluuuuuu! dahlah betray aku to get the quotation, pastu tipu aku kata kakak set-up, pastu bukak bisnes tiru aku, pastu promote kat orang bisnes baru dia tu masuk tv sedangkan yang tolong kau masuk tv pun aku ni tho kau stranger yang menyamar potential client!!! (walaupon kau propa kerabat bagai, nak hire TWH bagai) TAK MALU KE???

so korang semua, tengoklah wedding dia yang dia propa grand sgt 17 July ni dekat Nona TV3. nantikanlahhhh. konsep steward-stewardess MAS tu ada kat bridesmaids dia je. yang doorgifts, replica 5ft tu semua TAK ADA!!! kawan i yang attend her majlis pun cakap dia ni mmg propa!

*name removed, she mailed me. apologized*

to owner My Lacey Cookie Jar, shame on you.

I still keep all ur mails and sms-es. jangan sampai i publish dekat sini.

berhentilah propa, sembunyilah bawah meja, tukarlah nama kamu daripada memalukan diri sendiri dengan cara menipu and bohong orang lain.

seriously, u're such an embarassment.

*isi lain dikekalkan sebagai pengajaran kepada semua dan diri saya sendiri*