THE RETURN OF THE EX-BOYFRIEND

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Ever had an ex-boyfriend come back but it was too late?
Or he contacted you again after so many years?
Or he texted you days before you're about to get married?
Mesti ada yang pernah melaluinya.

It doesn't matter whether he contacted you again to get back together, to just say his sincere apology or to just be friends in the future.
Really, it doesn't matter.
After 6,7, or 8 years baru nak msg bagai...motif?
He can always say his apologies a year or two after he left kan?
What took him so long???

Ok... jangan marah2 dulu. sambung baca

As some of us might have had experienced--
Well, first cut is the deepest.
Betul tak? Betul. (ok jawab sendiri)

I dated this guy for about 2 years, almost 10 years ago.
He broke it off abruptly n in a very strange way, which i don't wish to elaborate.
He gave strange reasons too.

We both live in KL tapi mmg tak pernah terserempak.
Dari the day we broke up until today.
(tuhan sebaik-baik perancang. mmg Dia tak kasi jumpa)

Right before i got hitched in Nov 2011, i suddenly received a msg via fb.
I was kinda shocked. Lama weyh. Tiba2.
My ex msg-ed me.
He didnt say anything about getting back together.
He expressed his sincere apologies.
For all hearthache and pains he and people around him caused years ago.
It's very gentleman of him if he ever said his apologies liddat earlier.
(like 1-2 years after the breakup ke kan? bukannya 7-8 tahun!)
He didnt say he missed me.
But somehow at d end of the msg he said "if you want, i would like to call u and express my sincere apology"
Motif nak call?
Msg fb pun iols dah maafkan la... takpayah susah2 nak call. motif??

Alamak... ok don't jump into conclusion... baca lagi.

But memandangkan it took him so long, i decided to reply him with ceramah him, scare him a bit, maki sepuas hati and told him what had happened after d breakup.
I meant no harm pun.
Saja je nak lepaskan geram.
Lepastu i tak reply sbb dalam hati kenapalah nak gaduh pasal benda yg dah lepas.
I maafkan dia (dalam hati je time tu, tak reply pun lagi)
Tapi i marah-marah dia dulu laaaaaa
Saje nak lepaskan geram!!! ;)

Lepastu?... Sambung baca lagi...

Bonda saya pun tak bagi reply sbb dah nak nikah time tu.
Taknak ada gangguan katanya.
Dugaan katanya.
Takut cancel kahwin last minute katanya.
Motif?
I am mature enough.
Takkan la iols nak cancel wedding a week before.
Penat preparation & research bagai kan?
Haha

So after nikah baru saya reply.
I wished him luck and told him i was never angry with him.
Neither did i hold any grudge towards him.
Lepastu dua reply 'Ok' je.
Ye, dua huruf je. ;)

Moral of the story daripada kisah ini? sambung baca lagi....

It took me years to get over it.
It took me years to forget him.
For so many years i kept telling my good friends, i'll be running back to him if he ever crawls back.
But that didn't happen.
God knows why.
I wanted to accept the offer of  forgiving each other and we both become friends.
But it is not as simple as that.

I have to be fair to my present boyfriend at dat time (who is now my husband)
He knew that i can never forget my ex (at that particular time)
But he never ceased to love me despite my kekurangan.
He knew about the fb msg. I told him.
He even asked me and my ex to meet and become friends.
Yes, he is that mature and calm.

I am finally in a better place.

Nasihat iols kepada uols....

Selalunya kalau kes ex tiba2 contact balik ni, it's just a fling.
Mungkin time to emotionally tak stabil atau tgh gaduh dgn current boyfriend.
Most of the time, kalau u two get back together, it's not gonna be long.
Jadi jangan ikut perasaan.

Ingat...
Things will never be the same again.
He apologized?
I forgive him long time ago.
He apologized on behalf of his family and people around him?
I forgive a bit. (forgive la)
Macam-macam kisah...

Kisah my 2nd boyfriend lain la pulak.
Yang tu nampak i dalam tv, menang award bagai baru nak msg.
Motif?

Kisah my 3rd boyrfriend?
Hilang terus. Entah pi mana ntah.
Gone with the wind.
Haha

Kisah my 4th boyfriend?
Now, he's my husband :)

(Ye, saya tak ramai ex-boyfriend. Spesis susah fall in love, susah jugak nak fall out of love hehe)

Btw girls,
Life is like a roller coaster.
Itu semua pengalaman hidup --
So don't u ever forget what u had experienced.
Bukan bermaksud you tak move on.
Tapi kisah silam lazimnya akan mematangkan kamu.

Dulu marah kemain, sekarang rasa lawak pulak :))

Love,
Y

BALI FOR HONEYMOON?

Hello ladies!
Ok sorry, tak buat review pasal japan, korea bagai terus nak review Bali kan?
Why Bali?
Bali is a great spot for honeymooners; i mean ambiance wise & budget wise.
At the mo, i do not wish to do any review on Japan since it is another side of honeymoon--- bonding was like; always stay together to catch subways atau anda akan sesat di dalam lautan manusia! haha

So, i've been to Bali a few times. But last month was my first time with hubby :)
Harga tiket AA dapat murah jugakla... RM360 per person.
Denpasar Airport sebelah laut/pantai.... cantik :)

Since tickets tak mahal sangat, kami bersetuju to spend on accommodation  We stayed a Melia Bali, Nusa Dua. Sgt sgt private! (For honeymooners we definitely do not need a busy streets, taxi honks, with lots of drunk peeps aite?). We were treated in a truly welcoming Balinese way. All staff were so helpful. Staying in Villa 3 for 4 nights was indeed a wonderful treat. Melia Bali is a huge hotel set in a beautiful landscaped garden. Melia Bali ada it's own private beach... wallah! The hotel sgt sgt amazing! Breathtaking!

 bila malam menjelma... sgt romantik!

SUPIR?
Whatsapp Pak Isme at  +6281338614174
Harga sangat reasonable.
Rp350k for one whole day (usually dia amik saya 8pagi, balik 10 malam)
Kalau Pak Isme tak available dont worry, he has other supir friends :))


HALAL FOOD?
Bali ni 90% Hindu... so walaupun percakapannya macam typical Indonesians, the food are not any close to what kita makan di Jakarta dan bandung. Di Bali khinzir dan katak adalah makanan yang normal bagi mereka. Jadi anda perlu SANGAT berhati-hati bila tiba bab makan.

Wong Solo - located in Kuta. Sama je macam yang dekat Bangi tuuu! janji sodap dan halal! sekali makan our currency around RM30 (2 pax) ok la... murah.

Rumah Makan Rindu Rasa - in Nusa Dua. Serves yummy Nasi Padang... RM40 (2 pax). seperti biasa, bila makan Nasi Padang, amik lauk yang nak makan je. Yang takmau makan, jangan sentuh ye.

Jimbaran seafood - ok yang ni mahal sikit...RM300++ (2 pax) sbb we all makan kaw2!! termasuklah baby lobster!! :)) .. kira ok la. puas hati.

MUST GO PLACES?
Nusa Dua - The private beach & beautiful landscape. if u love watersports, Nusa Dua is the place!
Kuta - The markets, crowd, & the very cliche Hard Rock Bali. Discovery Mall.

Tanah Lot- Witness the Balinese rituals, huge waves & the so-called floating temple.

Uluwatu - The cliff, temple. breathtaking!

Tegalalang Padi Terrace - padi bukit yang sangat menenangkan. jangan lupa makan banan fritter with icecream  & es jeruk :))

Bali Agro Coffee & Tea - di sini sangat panas... kalau ada intention nak tengok proses kopi luwak, nak beli kopi and rasa pelbagai jenis teh (percuma!) bolehlah ke sini.

OTHERS (yang ni kalau tak pegi pun takpe)
Batik painting 
Silver place
Ubud market
Kintamani volcano - amik gambar dari jauh je. and ramai anak kecil menyerbu. hard sell. paksa2 beli.


TIPS YANG SANGAT PENTING:
1) Bersabarlah dan tahan iman di Kuta & Ubud kalau nak beli t-shirt. sebenarnya t-shirt yang mereka jual mahal dan tidak berkualiti. Kalau nak beli t-shirt as souvenir beli di Tanah Lot. Setiap t-shirt packagingnya cantik dan harga pun hanya Rp20k :)) harga keychain/fridge magnet rata2 Rp3-5k.... kalau mahal daripada ni, don't buy.

2) At any market, di kuta mahupun ubud, always remember to bargain more than half. Say a beach dress offered Rp150k, mintak Rp50k... they'll give. Pretend tak berminat if dorg tak kasi harga yang u nak :) kalau depa tak kasi pun just walk off, banyak lagi kedai yang jual barangan sama and boleh beri harga lebih baik...

3) Tinggal di Nusa Dua untuk privacy. Tapi kalau nak enjoy Kuta life, sila tinggal di hotel Grand Inna atau Kuta Paradiso... dua hotel ni betul2 dekat dengan pantai & hard rock. harga pun around RM300 je... Btw, Melia Bali saya dapat Executive Room RM430 via Agoda. :)

4) Kalau nak massage, di Kuta mmg murah Rp50k je... tapi tempatnya comot. dan kalau cuaca panas, hazabla berminyak dan belengas badan! So, kalau nak massage, pegi after 6pm. reccomended place, De Nyuh Spa... spa ni dalam hotel. so mmg proper. harga pun murah Rp85k je :))

5) Janganlah tergoda feeling2 nak private villa, gambar cantik dalam Agoda bagai. Sbb di Bali Villa2 ni terletak jauh, ceruk, nak keluar berjalan2, melepak bagai pun susah, taxi bagai pun hazan. Even the most expensive villa milik BVLGARI terletak ceruk di Uluwatu. hado! jadi, kalau nak sgt villa, amik villa milik hotel... if not tahulah, hazabnya nak romantic konon, jadi scary! ;p

if u have an question on Bali do not hesitate to comment / ask. If  u want me review on other countries i've been to, please let me know. Love yah!

;p

PELAMIN / DECO INSPORATION- SILA JAMU MATA!

Saya dah jadi stalker beliau sebelum merisik lagi...

that was in... 2009?

Saya sgt teruja dengan hasil seni beliau, terutamanya lighting.

Syukur impian tercapai.. dptlah juga lighting bagai waktu my wedding reception.

So ya, kreativiti beliau boleh jadi inspirasi pelamin perkahwinan anda.

 tak dapat 100% pun takpe, 10% pun jadi la kan?

selamat menjamu mata :)

He is Preston Bailey

Such a great talent

Xx

WHISPER, LAURIER or LIBRESSE ??

haaaaaa
uols kalau tgk nama2 di atas pasti tahu apa i maksudkan..
takkan lah nama future daughter kan?? (haruslah tak!!!)
itu nama jenama2 bila kita jumpa minggu istimewa setiap bulan... :)
(sbnrnya ternampak iklan kat sblh ni, terus feeling nak citer pasal period haha)

ok apa kata kita kongsi cerita
i remember my first period was in 1997 :)
that was yearsssssss ago...
i woke up in the morning at around 8am on Saturday (typical sbb nak tgk Alam Ria Disney haha)
.... mula2 ok.
dah pergi toilet bagai, tengah mandi tiba2 tgk ada darah...mmg awal tu dah sakit perut igt nak ber*k haha
(ok time tu dah agak dah i period sbb ramai kawan2 dah period dari darjah 6 haha)

ecehhhhh...sakit konon

i was not that lucky because bonda takde kat malaysia she's in turkey that particular time to chair a meeting
my father was around...erkkkk and yes, he was the only one at home that particular time.
abg and mike went out pegi sekolah ada ko-kurikulum camtulah.
bibik time tu kebetulan takde, coz sent her the day earlier to spend one whole day dgn saudara dia.
being the only girl in the family i was so shy to tell my father.
so i folded lots of tissues jadi panjang ala2 pad hahahaha
watched tv as if nothing happened (boleh??)

a few hours later,my brothers dah balik.
my brother nak mandi, Mike told me dia jumpa darah dalam toilet.
me??? dup dap dup dap takut depa tahu!
i told Mike that i killed a lizard ( hahah boleh propa darah cicak??)
and guess what, my brother told everyone in the house a cicak died.
he started to question how the lizard died and what not! (ok adik aku pet lover.. lizard? pet? ok tak! animals lover la, kucing ke,hamster ke, nyamuk ke semua dia kaji ok?)

aku mula rasa tak selesa
at around 6pm i decided to break the news (boleh??? tahan 10 jam!)
so yes, my father was the first to know about it :)
he called bonda.... (guna phone gabak 010 baling anjing pon boleh mati)

bonda balik a few days later and educate me on menses and what not
kalau uols blaja marketing pernah dgr tak Brand Loyalty (org tak belajar marketing pon tau sbrnya haha)
my mum ni jenis loyal to one brand, say....
sabun basuh = fab
ubat gigi = colgate
bleach = clorox
dish detergent = axion
beg sekolah = swan (ok yg ni sampai form1 je, form2 protest nak beg roxy. warna striking pink kau!)
kasut = bata (puas mengamuk nak pallas jazz, time form 1 tu konon tak cool pakai bata haha)
pad??? = Whisper

yessssssssssssssss
jadi sejak tingkatan satu sampai mula2 masuk university mmg saya pakai Whisper...
sbb bonda akan beli pack 20pcs yang lekat dua packs terus.
dia amik 1, saya amik 1 :)
maklumlah dua org je perempuan dlm rumah ni.

tapi bila dah lama sikit masuk university, dah mula beli sendiri... cuba2 la laurier, kotex bagai.
kotex saya confirm tak boleh pakai! senang bocor!
so guna laurier instead... maklumlah student, laurier murah uolsss! RM4 je!

this year saya jumpa satu brand yg sgt best!!!
LIBRESSE !!!!
uolssssss selesa sgt.
stkt ni tak pernah bocor.
so saya rasa elok saya share dgn kawan2 dan juga bonda betapa selesanya dgn Libresse

setakat ni pakai Libresse tak pernah bocor. Never dissapoint me . 

kalau ikut bonda, sampai ke sudah dia takkan change from Whisper.
but come... whisper sgt expensive kot!! (bocor jugak)
pakai Libresse mmg best.
So saya rasa tak salah kalau kita tukar jenama from the product yg kita guna dari kecik.
Tak salah mencuba.
Saya dah cuba, uols bila lagi?
Saya suka Libresse !

ceria dengan Libresse ! wahhhh gituuuuuu kemain bersemangat and segar!

JOM KONGSI CERITA!