i actually hate changes. but anyway, mr. X's mum yang sangat baik tiba2 nak tuka our hantaran 5-7. the sweetest future mother in law wants to bagi tujuh dulang to me. which means i have to balas 9 la kan? adoi.... i thought nak buat sederhana, simple je.... how? pengsan~~
his mother tak suke the idea of having the event malam.... but i soooo want to do it malam since:
1) i booked for everything dah kot!
2) i love candles...
3) i don't want to end up like my other friends yang berpeluh2 tunang siang.
but i manage to still buat malam.
cuma the problem is, his mum ckp from johor she'll singgah her sister's home in seremban. after maghrib bertolak to my house. i was like... what?? takkan nak sampai 9malam kot. bincang 10 malam? makan 10.30 malam?? oh no!!!
so i told mr. X, he has to be very very firm.tegas. his mum can sembahyang maghrib at my house; result? his mum taknak; segan katenye...
then i suggested, solat dekat madrasah near my house, mr. X malas nak ckp lagi ngn mak dia takut kena bising.
kalau ckp lebih2 nanti kate bakal menantu tak hormat agama pulak. by right cuba fikir, in KL mmg kalau RSVP hotel pukul 8pm, by 7.30pm dah kene sampai kan? takkan 9.30 baru masuk dewan time pengantin tgh walk along the aisle?? betul tak? it's the matter of menghormati host kan? adoi! no offense...
but again, if cakap lebih nanti kata kita ikut sgt budaya org putih. SEMUANYA SALAH.
so as usual, being a dominant me and a strong character i am, i gave his mother a call and straight forward ckp event starts at 8pm. i cant' afford to start my e-day at 10pm!
makeup artist sampai 6pm,takkan la i nak tunggu 4 jam! makeup cair and i dah berdengkur kot time tu!
same goes to photographer, coverage 4hours, he'll come at 6... pihak lelaki sampai photographer dah say bye bye! how??
i told my friends, dorang kate biasela org tua, semua benda nak siang...dorang tak paham budak2 skrg ni suke malam nak suasana romantic bagai... haish!
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh mr. X will balik hometown and pujuk his parents.
pray for me please!!!
my life is so over~ pengsan~~~~~~~~~~~~