BACHELORETTE PARTY vs BRIDAL SHOWER!

hello peeps,

i always wanted a bridal shower--- not a bachelorette party.

i'm not a fan of kinky party--- since we never know, if photos among friends might be used for some other puposes when friends become foes. haha who knows. paranoid.

i had oraganized bridal showers (4 times) and bahcelorette party (almost 10 times)

and... duit tak datang dari langit remember?

if our friends are among the rich kids, it's ok... but what if they are just like us--- work hard to earn every single cent for a living?

hahah i rasa 50% of bridal shower/party i pegi--- mesti ada sorang dua yang jenis berkira. trust me. mesti ada. hahaha

say, party for 20pax---

let's say if we get a proper hotel room = RM300

we order food = RM300

goodie bags for everyone = RM200

games = RM100

deco = RM100

man, that's a whole sum of ONE THOUSAND!

takkan la friends nak bayar semua kan, i so kesian...

cause yang oraganize usually close friends, so i lagi kesian.

organizing at home? no privacy

organizing at restaurants? = ok for bridal shower but not bachelorette party

organizing in pubs/clubs = we have to think about some friends who are not comfortable steping in those kind of places.

kan?

i'll definitely have one simple bridal shower for myself; definitely organizer is my bestfriend.

but, as kawan yang bertimbangrasa, i'll fork out RM500. :)

i think it is mean to let your friends use their money for everything.

it's just unfair.

kan? sweet tak i? ;p

ps: hakikatnya, sbb tau diri sendiri fussy. so i need to know the venue, the theme and etc... HAHAHAHAHA